Why don't men understand us?

[spicegirl445]

Why don't women understand us?

[inhua]

men have been studying women for decades, no centuries, actually millennia. historical texts and documents have all been recorded and passed down through the generations for many boys and young men to follow the template into become the type of man that women would want. unfortunately for the vast majority of men, it includes factors outside of their control e. g. height which is why most of them were unsuccessful and died as virgins

humanity as a whole has far more female ancestors than male ancestors for this reason alone. most women were having sex with kings, emperors and warlords. merchants, soldiers and slaves were lucky to get any women. slaves got nothing. fact of the matter is, survivability will always supersede likeability within a woman's primal instinct because a good personality has no value when it comes to survival and given that poverty and the cost of living is on the rise, a good personality is meaningless

this means it doesn't matter how great his personality is if he's ugly, short and broke. on the flip side a man could be a convicted felon but as long as he's hot or has money, there will always with women willing to fuck him. a great example of this is height. humans are taller than they were in the past however tallness is actually a recessive trait and shortness a dominant trait. to correct this, women stopped breeding with short men and only breed with tall men and over time, the global height increased however it couldn't be prevented fully because tall men were also breeding with short women and thus created short children. short daughters would be fine but short sons would be struggle compared to their taller counterparts

there's literally multiple sources, scientific studies, surveys and video footage that demonstrates female nature alongside men's experiences and with a large enough sample size and compiled together into what is now referred to as the Red Pill or Black Pill, it creates a pattern where women are shown in general have the most primal interest in men who are tall, strong, handsome, rich, famous etc. or anyone who is perceived to be masculine regardless of whether that particular man fits the male definition of masculinity or not e. g. Harry Styles wearing a dress

there's nothing wrong with that because that's how nature works however it does dispel all the lies that have been told to men that as long as they work hard and be nice, there's a good woman out there for them and inner beauty is most important which sounds great on paper and in fairytales but never works out in practice.

the only men who don't understand women are those who only just listen to their words and not observe their actions namely the simps, white knights, male feminists etc. the best indicator of what someone thinks is what they do, not what they say otherwise employers wouldn't sack late employees because those employees promise to never be late to work.

good boys have been watching their crushes chase after bad boys even if that bad boys is a bully and has a criminal record. in college the same pattern repeats itself. there are simply traits that women can instinctively agree is attractive in men and this is not about using exceptions and possibilities but rather it's using generalities and probabilities because if we base science on exceptions to the norm, then every Chinese man is 7 feet 6 inches tall because Yao Ming himself is 7 feet 6 inches tall. obviously that's not the case. same rule applies to when a woman happens to be with a man who society would consider to be "below her league" because the vast majority of women are not actually with unattractive men despite this false narrative being pushed out

if there's one thing most men struggle with in regards to women is the varying speech talk because women don't communicate directly and instead communicate in code. for example when a woman tells a man "let's just be friends", she doesn't actually want to be his friend. she simply has no romantic interest in him and is trying to not hurt his feelings. same way she says "I have a boyfriend" whether true or not, it's a way for her of subtly telling him to leave her alone.

evolutionary speaking, women had to speak in code to misled and misdirect men. it's a form of lying but meant for survival because in the past if a woman cheated on her man, she could be risking her own life and that of her affair partner if the husband gets angry and tries to kill her and the man she's cheating with, so she says something along the lines of "oh he's just a friend" even though the affair partner is actually more than a friend

understanding women ain't that hard if you have a keen eye for seeing truths that nobody else sees which only few people are capable of. all the evidence and resources are out there from documentary to romance stories to drama TV shows to consumer spending data to job choices and many more.

of course every now and then there's a woman who doesn't fit the data of scientific analysis and a lot of women will be in denial of their own true biological nature and believe they are the special one exception but in the end, it's not about the individual but about the entire group and how they react as a whole and more often than not, woman tend to be hive-minded and at the very least hang around friends who are just like them e. g. tradwives hang around tradwives. sex workers hang around sex workers. athletes hang around athletes etc. feminists hang around feminists etc.

it's foolish for men to believe that women are just like them because when shit hits the fan, the man is biologically hardwired to protect her from danger and he is expected to even at the cost of his own life. society can preach equality all they want but in reality men are expendable and disposable to society whereas women are valuable and needed more hence why the world was transformed in a way that catered to women and increased their comfort by building houses and killing off all the dangerous wild animals like sharks, crocodiles and big cats. in a world that catered to men, we'd still be living in caves and sleeping on hard rocks instead of in houses on mattresses with air conditioning. it simply doesn't take much to satisfy men hence why they also tend to have lower standards for women as opposed to women having higher standards for men

[AviatorTom]

Comprehensive studies have shown that men are primarily visual creatures, give a guy a picture or a map and he'll be fine; while women are primarily textual and oral, give a girl a book to read or turn-by-turn instructions instead of a map.

This biological difference makes communication difficult.

Women mostly communicate by talking, and that's the weakest skill that most men have.

There's one more thing, and that deals with sex. Biology makes women picky in selecting a mate, because a woman has a limited number of eggs (one a month) for only a limited time during her life (puberty to menopause). Men, on the other hand, have billions of sperm, and can ejaculate at any time during his life (puberty to death), which makes men not as picky as women. This also has an effect on communication between men and women.

[LiamJHayden]

In Screwtape Letter #26, C. S. Lewis had Screwtape say "Women think that unselfishness consists of helping other people as much as possible. Men, by contrast, think that unselfishness consists of not bothering people whenever possible." Just from this small example it should be easy to see how men and women can misunderstand each other completely on a basic level because we are built differently.

[Anonymous]

I know this is a stereotype, but there are reasons behind every stereotype and this one is no exception. Men are much more predictable because they make decisions more based on logic and reason. Women are more emotional and are more likely to make decisions based emotions, which of course is never predictable.

[boggboss]

Women tend to like speaking in code or by dropping hints not speaking openly about issues

[BarryLiverstone]

The wild thing is I’ll ask me female friends about a girl and what she does and they can’t understand her either

[KrakenAttackin]

Because it's hard to understand gibberish.

[Alex8736]

Can you be more specific?