How to understand men?

[Anonymous]

I've talking with a guy and he's always complimenting me. We talk almost all day and he compliments my looks, my stories, my body and sometimes he's acting a bit too 'sweet' like he often says how much he'd like to see my body more, how much he loves my lips, my chest and he sends messages like "Holy shit. You're so fucking hot.", "Fuck.". Stuff like that and when I thank him, compliment him back or I tell he's too sweet he says he's just like that, friendly and that he doesn't like to put people down and he's just genuinely. I'm getting mixed signals, I don't know what to think.

[Lionman95]

I think it´s important what he makes you compliments for. Does he solely compliment your body or does he also show interest in hobbies, activities and other parts of your life. Because what the guy might be doing is love bombing you to get you to sleep with him since he´s mainly focused on your body. I could be wrong but him complimenting mainly your body would be a red flag to me since it could be a sign he´s looking for sex. (I say would and could since I´m guessing.)

While a guy that it´s interested in a relationship is also interested in your hobbies, your values and other parts of your life. He´d also give you compliments for your body but that´s not his focus of interest. He´s rather looking to get to know you.

[Asker]

Yes he often shows interest in my hobbies.. like drawing and sketching for example. He said I'm talented and my drawings are perfect.
The thing is that I don't know if he acts like this with others too since every time I thank him he says he just doesn't like putting people down and he's friendly and I don't know how to describe this. But I have a feeling he's like this with other women too. I wanna sleep with him, I really like him but I'm getting mixed signals like now he's lovely then he's friendly.
(I'm so sorry if I confused you. I can't even describe it.)

The thing is he switches from lovely and flirty to just friendly and nice and that's confusing for me.

[Lionman95]

Sorry I haven't replied yet. I would say take your time with the situation and get to know him better. If he's at times flirty and at times more friendly that's because guys are not always friendly or flirty. An issue would rather be if he's cold like he distances himself completely for longer time. That could be a sign that he's not interested in you but playing around.

[Lionman95]

I would say it depends on whether he shows in an on going conversation or ife he just messages you every now and then.

[Asker]

He started talking so little with me. I've been looking through accounts he follows and comments and I saw just how flirty he is with other woman.

So I guess it only took little time to see how he truly is.

[Yannae]

No, he's not just like that, this man wants you bad and it could be sexual only.

[Asker]

He showed interest in my hobbies and other stuff too. I don't think it could be only sexual..

[Yannae]

The best way to understand a man is to take your time.

[Yannae]

Thanks for the MHO.

[Asker]

Yw.=^^=

[exitseven]

Sex and beer, not necessarily in that order.