I don't understand Men sometimes. Please help?

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I have known a good guy for 2 years and had a friends with benefits type of relationship with him. We would always text each other almost every day, like best friends and I know he cared about me and even said he loves me. He said he regrets not spending more time with me and that he loved being with me. I confessed my feelings for him and asked him if he would ever give me a chance, but he said that he's sorry and he doesn't ever want to be in a serious relationship. That really hurt, and I knew that the best thing for me to do would be to not talk to him anymore because my feelings would only grow stronger for him. Somehow I think that I can eventually change his mind, but I know that a lot of women think that way and it ends up being just the way the man said it would be. But a lot of things about him confuse me, like the things he's said to me or our strong connection. I'm confused about what to do. I haven't talked to him in 3 days and it's still killing me. Any advice please?
I don't understand Men sometimes. Please help?
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