I don’t understand him either. If he loves you, why wouldn’t he want something more serious or permanent? Maybe he just said that. I don’t know. But I think you’re wise not to try to change him. Broken hearts take time to heal; sorry it’s not working out the way you’d hoped.
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How can you be possibly be confused when he told you exactly what he wanted?
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This sort of thing happens frequently in friends with benefits situations because there is lots of overlap with traditional romantic relationships. Find a guy who wants the same thing you do.
So he just admitted to using you, for years. This may hurt to hear but he's a douche. A man doesn't treat women that way especially women they supposedly care about--only boys do.
This is why you shouldn't do friends with benefits and either date someone or not.
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