Why are men so confusing?

[Anonymous]

My friend told my crush I like him, all he did was smile and laugh? I noticed he mirrored my laugh (I could be delusional lol) and I talked to him and told him I didn’t want things to be awkward and he told me not to worry and that it isn’t awkward. We still text and whatever but gosh this is so confusing! He told someone he doesn’t like anyone atm so why is he still texting me? please help! 😂😂

[MisterWack]

Dude, he is YOUR crush he doesn’t have a crush on you for one.

Two, he said “I didn’t want things to be awkward and not to worry and that it isn’t awkward.” Also told someone he, “doesn’t like anyone atm”. Just because he doesn’t have a crush on you or wanting to fall in love doesn’t mean he doesn’t value you less or more as a friend.

Men & women and girls & boys can be friends, it is normal. I had a crush on someone and turned out we were better as friends, do the same.

[integrale77]

It's called unrequited love you have feelings for him but he feels nothing in return.

There is a remote possibility his mind might change but you could be waiting forever. Then there is the chance it might just end up as one night of nookie.

Best moving on

[Anonymous]

There's nothing confusing about this. Whether it be a man or a woman, anything other than an enthusiastic, "yes" is a "no". I 'm not saying he can't change his mind later. But for the time being it's a, "no". And don't take it personal. It's not necessarily about you. Just move on.

[jahaims]

It's not confusing you are just shit at communicating

[RedInnocent69]

Are they really, though? Or are you creating drama where there isn’t any?

[spartan55]

What is so confusing to you?