Why are men so confusing?

[Anonymous]

I had a male friend and we kicked off well until he found out that i liked him and he started to be hot and cold, and i did not understand why he was doing that. So we talked and worked things out and we became friends again, and everything was normal until he started giving me weird looks when ever i would hug my other male friends and he would include himself in conversation i had with my male classmates but i never understood why did all of that and why he would stare at me or side eye me most of the time when im seen with male friends of mine. It got a bit worse when i ended things because of his toxic ways
He was staring at me a lot, whispering my name in class and saying nasty things about me but i would never catch him doing that with other girls but would he do it with me when he was the one who said he did not like me like that, why would he get mad when im hanging out with my male bestfriend Aidan in front of him or even hugging my male bestie
Im confused i dont know what to do.

[Adam1978]

We are not, we are territorial and if he wants you, he doesn't want you to hug or let any other rivals near you. So you are causing the issue. Not him he just follow biology. This is why most men reject women with many male friends. They can't be trusted.

[BlackJeep]

Maybe we are confusing. There are a lot of times when we have to be something we aren't. We obviously have to man up and that means not admitting we are scared when we actually are. We have to be emotionally stable when everything around us is falling apart. Maybe that's why we can't admit we are lost and ask for directions. We are used to faking it.

[prensesmishka]

Maybe they’re not confusing, maybe women are too easily getting confused. I think men can be easily solved and understood. Even the science says that a woman is more complicated than a man so maybe women make it difficult. Don’t misunderstand me, I’m not saying that men are always reasonable. But they’re man, you know, don’t think much about it.

[Snickers_5171]

Well ouch..

[Pinay_ako]

He’s not confusing. He’s confused! And confused people who play hot and cold with you are no good. Just move on. He’s not worth your time and stress.

[mb120101]

Sounds like a loser not a man. Guys aren't complicated of they have good character. Show them attention and care and if theyre interested they will reciprocate. If he's not old enough to handle a normal adult relationship he's a red flag anyways

[lightbulb27]

fear, shame. they start thinking... and that's bad, no mature. intimacy can be scary for some...

[bingbongbangbung]

he's probably seeking validation and/or wanting you to take it beyond just friendship; I've kind of had that happen to me with a female classmate in college i got romantically involved with.

[BryanMoore]

A lot of men are pretty avoidant and struggle to communicate well, leaving you guessing or having to assume things... find yourself a good communicator and you're golden!

[Anonymous]

It's like this. 😆😆😆 Whether you want to accept it or not your gender does the exact same thing.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/_BRv9wGf5pk

[Guanfei]

We're not. We're extremely simple creature. So simple that you women can't understand us because you're overcomplicating and overinterpreting everything.

[TrillXHippy]

What’s confusing about him giving you weird looks when you hug other guys? It’s called being jealous. Ain’t nothing confusing about men

[Asker]

Okay but why would he be jealous if he was just a friend

[TrillXHippy]

He’s just a friend but maybe he just wants to be more than friends

[Christoff92]

Because we stink like our buddies 🦧

[AnusNdaPainus]

Just say you don’t understand men

we are literally the simplest creatures alive

food , sex , quiet.

[LiamJHayden]

Really? I think most guys are pretty simple.

[Sasha0426]

He’s definitely jealous. But, I would say you dodged a bullet if he’s going to talk shit about you.

[Emanon25]

He likes you and got jealous when he saw you with your classmates guy.

[Ptrmbrs88]

Men say the same thing about women. I guess that's something we'll just have to get used to.

[Anonymous]

He is such a dick there are Billions girls are available i don't understand why wasting time on you...

[Sasha0426]

Ew 🤢 Such a nasty human being you are.

[Sasha0426]

Why your parents had you, I’ll never know.

[Opinion Owner]

Im worst then that sweety...😊

[Sasha0426]

Obviously 🙄 I hope your mom disowned you. I know I would.

[Opinion Owner]

Nah they don't own me I left them when I was 14...😊

[Sasha0426]

Now it all makes sense. You’re exactly like your parents.

[Opinion Owner]

Yup you're right sweety 😊

[Sasha0426]

At least you’re honest and have no issue turning out to be like them. Many kids like you enjoy being pieces of shit.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes you're right 😊

[spartan55]

What exactly are you confused about?

[Asker]

What i am confused about is why does he get mad when he sees me with other guys or even talking to them when all he wanted us to be was friends

[spartan55]

How do you know he's mad?

[Asker]

The tone of his voice, his facial expressions

[leahzrc]

he has jealousy issues and trust issues

[Asker]

But why would get jealous he has a girlfriend

[leahzrc]

I didn't say you were

[sirderpsalot123]

We really aren't, lol...

[In_Trance]

For the same reason women are

[mommymommymommy]

Because you make it

[Jltakk]

Men are the absolute easiest.