Guys, Why do men block women who confess their love for them?

[Anonymous]

Hi everyone. So I have been talking to this guy for a while since August. We went out on some dates always flirted etc etc. However I noticed how started dry texting me and treating me funny. When I confronted him about it he told me nothing was wrong he was just stressed from work. However when I asked him about it again he made up some bs about multiple red flags after our last date. I had no clue what he was talking about because on our date I was mostly shy but was talking and we kissed like 3 times after the date. I told him I had feelings for him and felt like I was falling in love with him but was too afraid to tell him cause I didn't want to scare him off. Next thing I know when I confessed this he blocked me on social media even social media I didn't follow him on. I don't know what I did or what to do. Even though he blocked me he still text me. We suppose to be meeting next week but I don't know. Im just confused and I don't know what to do? I was willing to do anything for this guy cause I really liked him but im legit trying to figure out wtf happened?

[DarkWinterNights]

It’s possible you came on a little too hard and he panicked. However it’s far more likely he disqualified you from the relationship zone because of something you said or did. Think of it like the friendzone. Once you’re there you’re there forever. Though, unlike the friendzone, guys don’t really have any desire to keep those women around so they will often ghost or block them.
If you’re really level headed about it and don’t push too hard, you might be able to get him to tell you what it was that turned him off so quick.

[Asker]

That's the thing I didn't do anything and I barely talked on our second date. My thing is he lied. He said since im going to grad school he'll visit, I'm God blessing, he wanna see me again etc etc. But then after our second date he was dry texting. I asked him what's wrong he said nothing just stressed. Then when I asked him again weeks later he had a nerve to ask what can I offer him besides sex? This was disrespectful af cause I didn't come off that way. He just became cold. He told me to be honest and I did and he blocked me on everything. My issue is this guy doesn't know what he wants one minute he tells me he want something the next minute he doesn't and I can't take it anymore. He need to work on himself. He claim he been cheated on in every relationship but when he comes across someone whose the opposite he treats them like dirt. It's wrong in my opinion

[DarkWinterNights]

Well sounds like he has some trust issues, maybe he self sabotaged himself.

[Asker]

True its sad he was texting me fine the other day and I sent him a text yesterday and he never responded. I think im blocked. Idc anymore I'm heart broken but maybe it's for the best. I was willing to do anything to make it work.

[pickles77]

That’s very suspicious behavior

[Asker]

It really is!!

[pickles77]

You should go undercover and NCIS his ass 😆

[Asker]

Oh I did and found out some things. Nothing major but he lied about the spelling of his last name🤣🤣🤣🤣

[pickles77]

Keep digging there had to be more lol

[pickles77]

Has to*

[Asker]

Not much dirt cause he in the military. The only thing I found is misspelling his last name and maybe some court documents that may be his lol

[pickles77]

Darn where’s the juicy stuff lol

[Asker]

There's none 🤣🤣🤣 yeah in the military you gotta stay clean lmaoo

[pickles77]

Alright I don’t like this guy anymore we need someone more interesting 🤣

[Asker]

Lmaoooo he just texted me lmaooooooo

[pickles77]

Alright tell him he needs to confess his sins 🙊🤣

[Asker]

I did🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[Asker]

I'll confess mine if he confessed his. Lmaooo men are funny

[syncheart]

The blocking thing seems a bit strange to me. But whenever a woman shows any kind of interest in me, my heart does a flip, and I get really anxious. I haft to calm myself down. One time a woman online had some feelings for me, and she said something and she didn't like how I replied. So she later told she no longer felt the same about me, and asked if we could just be friends. It really really hurt, and things didn't go well after that. I went into depression for a month!

What was going on with me? Like I said, I was feeling anxious and afraid. I really liked her, but at the same time, she lived in another state. Somehow I would need to tell my parents. And then somehow we would need to meet in real life. Thinking about all of this stuff, stressed me out. Plus I also came down with a cold.

I guess, what I'm trying to say is, things can feel overwhelming sometimes. It can take a little time to get used to things.

[Hanrej]

He has girlfriend and is cheating on her with you. If he wasn't interested in you you guys wouldn't still have contact. He's made himself inaccessible to you so you can't find out and/or to make sure that your activities on social media and other platforms doesn't reach his girls attention.

[Asker]

Yeah he claims he single but I think he just like friends with benefits. He wanted me to spend the night with him next week but I don't know anymore. This guy has two kids and told me he been cheated on in every relationship. He needs to see himself as the common demoninator

[Yannae]

They're bad at talking and choose to block instead. I've never blocked a girl for confessing to me. I just politely reject her. It's least you can do if you're not interested.

[Asker]

He did that then blocked me on social media but still text me. Then he made up some dumb ass excuse saying he blocked me before I confessed my love to him but didn't unblock me cause he got distracted. I honestly don't get it.

[Yannae]

To be honest, you now know he isn't the right one. If he has to lie to you already.

[Asker]

True like I honestly don't get this man he did a complete 360. I tried to work it out. He wanna be friends and that's cool but I feel that something is off. He wanna say I'm immature but he's the one who is holding grudges, not communicating, dry texting and blocking a girl who shows genuine interest in him and gets upset about it. I lk think their someone else but he claims he don't wanna be tied down. I feel used

[Showtime23red]

Since you do like the guy, I would suggest you give him a chance to clear things up and start making up for it. But keep him on a short leash. Now that he knows how you feel about him he needs to appreciate and respect you by changing his ways or kick him to the curb. No more chances.

[Asker]

@Showtime23red Yeah im about to kick him to the curb. He is very inconsistent one day I texted him it was great! Then another day we texted it he was dry texting and he didn't respond to my text from last night. He agreed to go out next week but I don't know anymore tbh. This guy need to work on himself

[RavVid]

Doesn't know what to do with them? OMG! She likes me - what the fuck do I do? This is the first time and a decade since my first rock hard. :)

[Rc2020]

I don't know but I wouldn't