Why a guy would be so forgiving to a girl?

[Anonymous]

[inhua]

there's 2 types of forgiving from men

there's the genuine type of forgiving in which the man realizes a particular woman is actually worthy of pursuing a relationship with and he wants her in his life

and then there's the fake type of forgiving in which the man realizes a particular woman isn't worthy of a relationship but good for sex only thus toys with her emotions to get what he wants

[Fireguy17]

There are a few reasons that I can think of.

She is really hot and he fears he will never get someone that hot ever again

She has sex with him and he fears that he will never have sex with anyone ever again

He likes being used/taken advantage of, possibly because that was how he was raised

He is an idiot and can't see how he is being treated because he is afraid he will never have another girlfriend again.

[DaveJord]

Women get it twisted... it not that we ever get over the pain you caused us.

We just can transition from truly caring about you, to purely using you for sex without much effort. And we feel no remorse in doing that to a woman, once she has proven herself unworthy of our love and trust.

[Asker]

How I proved that the fact was that I was making the point to him many times that I am relationship person

[ImalwaysrightOK]

Because guys have soft spot for girls, that's what we do.

[KrakenAttackin]

@ImalwaysrightOK. You need to harden the fuck up. Yes, men do have an inherent soft spot for girls but girls like this and will manipulate the fuck out of you. Play the game but don't EVER let her get the upper hand.

[ImalwaysrightOK]

@KrakenAttackin you're right about being on guard for manipulative women, i was just observing that in general men will tolerate more sh1t from women because they are fonder of women than women are of men and for sex availability sometimes as well.

[Anonymous]

Because he really, really is into you. This one girl called the police on me multiple times, not telling the whole truth, and I still can't sever my feelings for her.

[Asker]

But on social media he does not pay the same attention to me as other girls almost ignores me. Why

[Opinion Owner]

I wish I could tell you, but your situation is obviously different than mine. I don't really use social media.

[Anonymous]

Because he is disciplined. You forgive people for selfish reasons.

[lorenzomichael]

Because he's a stupid ass, or he wants to bang her.

[slatyb]

Why isn't she more forgiving off herself?

[Asker]

I mean a girl did many shitty things and he still forgives her. Why?

[slatyb]

Maybe he thinks he can't do any better.

[KrakenAttackin]

He wants to keep the pussy train coming.

[Asker]

Just for sex?

[KrakenAttackin]

If he has any sense, only for sex. Once he has discovered your true nature he make the mental shift from "she is girlfriend/wife material" to "she is just a fuck buddy". You can "forgive" a fuck buddy for almost anything because she is disposable.

[Asker]

But he has many options why me , and he was very angry at me and said stay away from me

[Asker]

From him

[DaveJord]

@KrakenAttackin 100% once it determined she is no longer relationship material... men can do that mental genjutsu required.

[KrakenAttackin]

@DaveJord Absolutely.

[DaveJord]

So he got mad, and stayed away from you... meaning he took some time to get over you... now he wants to be fuck buddies.

[Asker]

@DaveJord How I proved that the fact was that I was making the point to him many times that I am relationship person

[KrakenAttackin]

Asker... Why, because you project, nag, bitch, complain, ridicule, and emasculate?

[DaveJord]

@ asker if you or he was true relationship material for each other you would not be in this place. But if it is something you want, then you need to go crawling back to him and work through it with him. There will be no good answers on this site for you.

[Asker]

@DaveJord be in this place? He say he is not relationship person and he left his ex for that. For me it is more logical to think that we forgive for those people that we appreciate

[KrakenAttackin]

Asker... Forgiveness only has a place for people not likely to repeat the same behavior.

[Asker]

He also shew me some romantic gestures like wishing me happy valentine' s day

[Asker]

He is popular than me and can get any other fuck buddy

[Asker]

Why you think I will repeat it. Wtf

[DaveJord]

I can't help those that will not help themselves... but at the end of the day, I don't know shit about you or your life. But it felt right and good, then you should not be on here asking questions.

[Asker]

@DaveJord I just speak that you lack logic

[DaveJord]

Maybe I do lack logic... or maybe you should ask yourself the same questions. I mean Kracken and I pretty much answered your question.

He is forgiving because we want to have sex with you, would dating you. Now that is a true fact, or it is not... but that up to you to figure out.

Nothing not logical about that.

[jjj101010]

No context but probably for sex

[MementoMori777]

patience.