Can a guy go cold to protect him self or is it always that he just doesn't like you enough?

[Solstraale]

[LiamJHayden]

It can be that he is guarding himself. It can be that he met someone else. It can be that he heard a lie about you. It can be that he knows he's a scoundrel and he cares too much to burden you with himself. It can be lots of things.

[SnowedIn]

There are reasons that don't have to do with you. And yeah, stop himself from getting hurt is one.

[SnowedIn]

Thank you for MHO!

[DaveJord]

Hard to say... I mean when I put forth an effort with a woman and I get the impression she is not interested on the same level that I would be interested in her... then yeah I go cold.

Like honestly, I am only going to go so far with the enthusiasm and excitement unless I think she is giving me that same level of enthusiasm and excitement... and if she is not then I lose interest.

[ProbablyClueless]

Of course we can go cold to protect ourselves. It's tough to say which is happening without knowing the full context, but guys have feelings too.

[JesseP1nk]

If i put in the effort and she does not respond or return the favour then yeah i would go cold. Wouldn't you? Imagine you put all the effort and he does not respond at all.

[PointTaken]

I do it in a way to protect myself. All the shit I've been through, I can turn cold and heartless in a second.

[Anonymous]

The same way people can be afraid of heights, regardless of how safe it is.

[Shy_Steve]

It's usually because you have done something that he finds Unattractive.

[Justinslay]

Depends, could be a cry wulf or she really could have shut down hard to say.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Sure we can if your been hurt enough that will definitely happen weather we want it to or not

[nawtee_me]

If there is a guy that doesn’t like you, then there is something wrong with him…. lol

[EaterPeter]

A guy can go cold. Who is he protecting himself from?

[Anonymous]

to protect himself which is what i do from that asshole demi

[MementoMori777]

depends on the situation

[RHK36]

Could be a number of things, so ask him.

[In_Trance]

Doesn't like you enough

[msc545]

ask him, not us

[LeftHappy]

Good question, it's probably both?