If a guy doesn’t like u romantically, why would he hide from u everytime he is texting/calling other girl? As if he actually likes you and want to cover up that he is actually hitting on other girl as well..
The whole situation make him look suspicious
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Because it isn’t your business, that’s it and that’s all. You have to really like this guy to not accept him turning you down and instead over analyzing his behavior, but I find it counterproductive to moving on past your crush on him. The rejection may hurt your feelings or bruise your self esteem, but at the end of the day he has already given you his answer. Doesn’t matter why he’s doing this or that, doesn’t even matter if he finds you attractive, choosing to invest in a romantic relationship is a whole different situation and he doesn’t want that with you. Accept this now so you can move on.
Don’t be that woman who treats being turned down as nothing more than an obstacle to surpass or acting like he didn’t mean what he said, look for clues to back that up. This isn’t a mistake or accident, it’s his final choice. You aren’t that person for him but doesn’t mean you won’t be for someone else.
Im for a fact moving on now. It just that i can't brain his action… i accept that we are friends now, so why he need to act strange? Thats disrespectful as per what we agreed
You can’t just flip the switch from seeing him as a romantic interest to being a close friend he confides in about his romantic life. Even though you’re eager to move on, this is all still new unfortunately and it will take time for him to open up with you. That’s assuming you were someone he shared these things with in the first place, if he’s a private person you’re just not going to receive that information no matter what. I have close, longtime friends I don’t share every aspect of my dating life with.
It isn’t disrespectful for him not to show you his conversations with other women, because friendship doesn’t entitle you to that information. He doesn’t need to run his choices by you and open up all of a sudden, it’s not your business.
Sounds like he is into playing games, and not worthy of your time.