Why is it that some men in their 30s usually lack communication?

[Anonymous]

[provokeesmokee]

Most men our age weren't taught to be communicative.

Communication is a skill that requires building and practice. Most average people - nevermind men, though they are going to be worse at this due to toxic patriarchal values - suck at communicating well.

I also dated a woman who was similary bad at communicating. Particularly during crisis.

[Apple1996]

Men always lack in communication regardless of their age 🙄

[DarkWinterNights]

Define lack of communication? Do you mean it takes time for them to respond? Guys in their 30’s are busy. It doesn’t mean they aren’t interested, they just have a lot going on and they have responsibilities and priorities.

[Lionman95]

The guys that are single in their 30s are sometimes the guys that are left over so to say. These guys might have never been in a relationship and therefore don´t know how to communicate with a woman.

[Anonymous]

As they get older, their ways of thinking become more childish

[Asker]

All single men? Or just some men? Single and taken?

[Opinion Owner]

All of them

[ProbablyClueless]

The kinds of men in their 30s who have a desire to talk with women your age tend to lack maturity.

[Asker]

Is it really true? : ( It's so sad because I really like older men especially when they are in their 30s, I have met 2 men in their 30s (in separate months), but they both lacked communication.. I am big on communication, so it's a bit frustrating when they lack communication 🙃 I'm now with a guy my age, and so far, he communicates way better than the 30s men I met before. Maybe men like you are different ☺️

[ProbablyClueless]

Unfortunately, it's very true. I basically find women in their early 20s unattractive because they just aren't on the same wavelength as me.

[Asker]

Hmm, maybe you haven't met the right one yet.

[ProbablyClueless]

🤷🏽‍♂️ could be. I'm open to connecting with people on a real level. A genuine connection is a genuine connection, regardless of age (obviously, assuming that all relevant laws are being followed).

[Asker]

That's good because you never know what might come your way🙂 thank you for responding by the way, best❤️

[PragmaticProfit]

I’m turning 30 next week. I’m a military veteran, and a working professional. I’m also married. I still find women in their early twenties attractive. Men are biologically attracted to women at their peak fertility. It doesn’t insinuate that the man is immature. I can understand the distinguished difference between maturity in regard to dating, but dating and finding someone attractive are different things.

[PragmaticProfit]

I tend to like a more submissive woman anyways. I like a woman who can assist me in my life mission and raise my kids, not necessarily seeking a best friend.

[inhua]

lacking in what? being unable to read minds?

[Avicenna]

Well, is it realistic to expect everyone to be a good communicator? Of course not.

[In_Trance]

For the same reason some women in their 30s lack the same thing

[Chthou95]

Women aren't good communicators and expect men to know or take hints