Do guys get nervous and uncomfortable around girls they DON'T like?

[Anonymous]

Even if they know you think they are cute

[Billlewis]

Because most men are afraid of most women, and if we know that we're at risk of becoming the object of her ire... we'll, you know the old saying... 'Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned'. And any guy older than about age five knows all too well that even an average woman is more than capable of scorching our hindquarters thoroughly and completely, whether she does figuratively or literally.

[Raaj4you]

When I was a school kid, teenager I felt nervous and uncomfortable around all girls / women. I didn't had the courage to talk to the girls. I don't have female friends. I am trying to overcome my weakness. I can't wait, I have to find a girlfriend ASAP.

[strateguy632]

and your name is raj, same as character in big bang.

[Raaj4you]

@strateguy632 Oh yes!

[Raaj4you]

Thanks for MHO😘

[Anonymous]

No. I ignore them or act completely indifferent if I have no interest in a girl, and I have a feeling she has interest in me. When I do like a girl, my behavior is all over the place. I get very nervous and anxious. This will vary depending on the guy.

[Asker]

He acts that way too tho… he’s not really awkward but he’s sometimes uncomfortable around me. He even starts whistling when he passes by and stops once he leaves.

I don’t think he’s attracted to me at all. He’s nice looking he can do way better than me. I have a history of guys dumping me or lying to me for someone better

[Opinion Owner]

I'm just telling you how I acted around my crush was similar to this guy You shouldn't sell yourself short because of bad past experiences.

[ProbablyClueless]

Yeah! In some ways, I'm actually more likely to be nervous around girls I don't like when I know they like me. It's too easy for a situation like that to go sideways.

[Asker]

Yeah tbh I figured ….. I noticed that when when he passed me when we are alone he awkwardly starts whistling a awkward tune. I guess he rather do that then say hi lol

[ProbablyClueless]

Yeah. Situations like that feel like minefields sometimes. You'd rather just ignore it's happening than have the conversation lol

[Asker]

Well there’s this guy at my job who I thought was cute. I should not have told my other coworkers that bc they were being immature about it and whenever he came around they would “poke fun”. He started to pick up on it… but he’s a very quiet and non talkative person to begin with. He doesn’t smile, talk or tray communicate with anyone

His mom is very nice and complimented my hair. She works at my job as well.

I just noticed that he awkwardly whistles a tune when he passes me and when we are alone.

[Vikkrram]

Tell what's happening with you. Everyone has their own way.

[Asker]

Well there’s this guy at my job who I thought was cute. I should not have told my other coworkers that bc they were being immature about it and whenever he came around they would “poke fun”. He started to pick up on it… but he’s a very quiet and non talkative person to begin with. He doesn’t smile, talk or tray communicate with anyone

His mom is very nice and complimented my hair. She works at my job as well.

I just noticed that he awkwardly whistles a tune when he passes me and when we are alone.

[Vikkrram]

Look i would say that coz now he knows that you found him cute so things are being now kinda awkward around you both

[Asker]

Maybe it’s rejection lol

[Vikkrram]

Yes who knows , but you know it's really hard to understand let me tell you something about me then you would know how complicated it is

[Vikkrram]

Ok let me tell you something there's a girl in my apartment mostly in sometimes she would moove out from here. So she was the one who started looking at me , staring at me always so initially i thought it was mine perception but it started having frequently. And slowly we were looking at each other and this went for almost 3 years. Whenever we met we were always looking if sometimes i ignored her she would purposely do it to show me.

We both become kinda awkward around each other. She kinda becomes nervous around me so as i. But i thought that i might have given her some wrong hints. So i apologized her on her insta saying that i am sorry if i did anything wrong People might take things wrong.
She asked why i was apologizing so i said that i thought i might have disturbed you in the past and she even asked me did i have to tell something else and i said no that's it and now if you have to block me then you can.

But ma'am now whenever we meet we kinda ignore and avoid each other. She behaves like i have threatened her and I don't want to come near her to have any kind of awkwardness.

I don't know what's going on?

[Asker]

How did you find her instagram?

[Vikkrram]

It shows people you know options

[Asker]

But we’re you guys friends or have eachother numbers

[Asker]

That’s prob the reason if you guys were not friends or anything. I would be very creeped out if a neighbor saw my page

[Vikkrram]

That's why i apologized coz look i know what were goin on and i need to clear that things. Coz i have been looking and obserrving things from last 3 Years. So obviously i want to clear the things.

And i know now everyone would say that it's mine fault. I have done wrong but you know try to be in my shoes , i just apologized and clear the things. After that i never messaged her , nor i come in front of her.

But i hope you try to understand my problem maam

[Anonymous]

It's rather opposite, if a guy like someone he rather get nervous on the term that a girl deserves best and ever he could do for her , it's depends on his feelings for her and eventually the girl will know.

[strateguy632]

no we dont. only when we are worried we might scare her away.

[RavVid]

A girl I don't like is not anything to me - so what would I care?

[lorenzomichael]

I would say no unless that girl could beat the shit out of that guy. Then yeah he's probably terrified.

[BLP11520]

I think they might you won’t like every single person

[Jazzy54]

In my personal experience, no.

[Asker]

Well there’s this guy at my job who I thought was cute. I should not have told my other coworkers that bc they were being immature about it and whenever he came around they would “poke fun”. He started to pick up on it… but he’s a very quiet and non talkative person to begin with. He doesn’t smile, talk or tray communicate with anyone

His mom is very nice and complimented my hair. She works at my job as well.

I just noticed that he awkwardly whistles a tune when he passes me and when we are alone.

[spartan55]

Too much mental gymnastics here.

[MementoMori777]

depends on the guy but normally i dont think so

[Anonymous]

Nope only around girls we like

[In_Trance]

some do, some don't

[monghjay2]

no lol