Is this normal for a guy to do this?

[Tinana]

I met this guy at a lounge and he asked for my number which I did. The next day we went out but It was brief because my day was busy but we had an amazing time just talking to each other and he said we could go out together the next day. So he dropped me off and went to see his friends. He didn’t even text me afterwards I texted to thank him because he got something for my roommate and he said oh you’re welcome. But the next day he didn’t text he didn’t call. I wasn’t going to text him but my friend said it’s good to reach out. So I did he said he’d call me and he’s been busy but I still haven’t been called

[Anonymous]

Lol women ghost men all the time after dates when they get free meals and don’t think there is a “vibe” there. This is what being semi ghosted feels like. He is kind because he actually answered one of your text.. if it was me, I would have left it on read and wouldn’t waste my time answering.

[Tinana]

Yeah but that’s when you didn’t like someone I didn’t meet him he met me. We spoke he held my hand not me he said “he had a great time” of it was a horrible time sure I’d understand or if it was like he had something sexual and ghosted sure but like nothing like that happened

[Opinion Owner]

I mean there could be more reasons that he would ghost. Lol a guys like that would tend to say things so as to make a woman feel comfortable. Most men would lie to a woman to avoid hurting her. But in the end, his actions say it all. You might not have been as charming or as he expected you would be. He should be a man and tell you that, absolutely, but ultimately, he ghosted you because something you did are the way you are he didn’t really vibe with.

[kylee2437]

This man doesn’t want to own up to his feelings of not being interested after this date. Leave it be. Don’t keep reaching out for an answer. He’s a grown man and should be able to stand strong about whatever he is feeling

[Tomisworthless]

Probably senses your clingyness

[Tinana]

Lmao I’m not clingy I already deleted his number if he calls he calls. I’m just wondering if that’s normal

[berserkx]

Just chill out

[Bklynbadboy12]

How long ago was it

[Tinana]

We went out on Saturday and we’re meant to go out on Sunday then Monday I texted to ask if everything was okay today is Tuesday

[Bklynbadboy12]

Oh that's okay he probably really is busy. It gets like that sometimes