lol the interesting part is you saying "with out her suspecting anything" ...
As a man you WANT her to know your intentions. I don't mean that you go up to her and say "I REALLY REALLY like you and I TOTALLY want your number PLEASE!" But just go up to her and say "We should go grab lunch together, or hang out, what's your number".
If you try to hide your intentions then she won't know what to think and she WILL NOT initiate much if anything (and she's shy). Most girls always wait...and wait but never initiate conversation or try to get his number because it is socially embedded that men should do the initiating (I believe that this social idea sucks but we men MUST move forward anyways). So don't be TOO obvious but don't hide it either...let it be natural. Be yourself in front of her and that will show the real you.
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Always smile and maintain eye contact.Be confident!Talk to them (Girls get turned off or get the impression that you don't like them if you don't talk to them)Make a joke, it will break the ice.Shy girls probably won't start talking right away.She probably won't go talk to you; you need to be the one to start the conversation. After a while she will begin to start conversations with you. You can also wave to her beforehand.Don't let the conversation die down!Do not ever, ever, insult her in any way. Also, do not ever ask her why she is so quiet/shy. There is no answer to that question, and the shy girl will feel uncomfortable.Always keep eye contact and don't just stand still and fiddle with your hands.
First thing, do you have any classes with her? If you do, its a great way to get her number. Say something like "Hey! you really seem to get this stuff in etc. etc., would you mind if I called you to get some help?"
So once you call her you can get to know her...very non-threatning.
If you don't have classes with her, why not join a few clubs or activites that she's in? Then find a reason to call her (but don't turn stalkerish)...anywayz good luck! =)
I think you should probably just start up a conversation with her. Maybe an opportunity would come up were you could ask. If that doesn`t work, if you have any classes wit her, maybe you could ask her to tutor you.
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Just ask her if she has aim or something.
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