How to ask a shy girl for her phone number without having her suspect anything?

[Anonymous]

There's a girl in my school who's phone number I want to get. I think she wants to befriend me because she has been saying hi to me several times a week for the last couple of weeks and I think her "hi" has a meaning because this very-kind girl HARDLY ever talks or even says hi to people who aren't her friends; ESPECIALLY with guys (me being a guy and not her friend, I believe she at least wants to befriend me). I have asked many questions about her in the past anonymously on this site and the majority of the people (more than 3/4 of the people) say that this girl say a crush on me thus increasing my desire to get her number as I like her too. so how do you think I should get her number without having her suspect anything ?(if there's an easier way than asking her directly I would appreciate it because I am VERY SHY) thank you in advance

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by the way do you think I should ask for her number? I'm not sure about if she would give it to me if I asked. If you want to know abouth her behavior then follow these links.

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sorry, couldn't put links on

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if you want to see one of the questions, go on google and type this: girlsaskguys kind gal spontaneous. choose the first one (it should say "Girls ask guys - Widgets) and the text underneath should say: There’s very kind (she is kind to everybody) gal.

[MaxPrime]

lol the interesting part is you saying "with out her suspecting anything" ...

As a man you WANT her to know your intentions. I don't mean that you go up to her and say "I REALLY REALLY like you and I TOTALLY want your number PLEASE!" But just go up to her and say "We should go grab lunch together, or hang out, what's your number".

If you try to hide your intentions then she won't know what to think and she WILL NOT initiate much if anything (and she's shy). Most girls always wait...and wait but never initiate conversation or try to get his number because it is socially embedded that men should do the initiating (I believe that this social idea sucks but we men MUST move forward anyways). So don't be TOO obvious but don't hide it either...let it be natural. Be yourself in front of her and that will show the real you.

[Anonymous]

Always smile and maintain eye contact.Be confident!Talk to them (Girls get turned off or get the impression that you don't like them if you don't talk to them)Make a joke, it will break the ice.Shy girls probably won't start talking right away.She probably won't go talk to you; you need to be the one to start the conversation. After a while she will begin to start conversations with you. You can also wave to her beforehand.Don't let the conversation die down!Do not ever, ever, insult her in any way. Also, do not ever ask her why she is so quiet/shy. There is no answer to that question, and the shy girl will feel uncomfortable.Always keep eye contact and don't just stand still and fiddle with your hands.

[Rubymstar]

First thing, do you have any classes with her? If you do, its a great way to get her number. Say something like "Hey! you really seem to get this stuff in etc. etc., would you mind if I called you to get some help?"

So once you call her you can get to know her...very non-threatning.

If you don't have classes with her, why not join a few clubs or activites that she's in? Then find a reason to call her (but don't turn stalkerish)...anywayz good luck! =)

[shygirl914]

I think you should probably just start up a conversation with her. Maybe an opportunity would come up were you could ask. If that doesn`t work, if you have any classes wit her, maybe you could ask her to tutor you.

[Anonymous]

Just ask her if she has aim or something.

[Asker]

What if she doesn't have aim? Trust me, this girl does not have anything like that or a cellphone, facebook account, myspace or anything else. I don't even think she has an email address!

[Opinion Owner]

Then instead of just asking for the number, ask if she wants to hang out after school one of these days.

[Asker]

Alright, thanks!