How do I ask for a girls phone number without sounding like a creep?

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So there’s this girl that works at a gas station that I’m really into, and I’m prettyyyy positive that she’s into me to but the only problem is that now every time I see her my brain shuts off and I don't know what to say. Can someone please give me advice on how to get over the dead brain and ask her?

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

You can make it look like getting her phone number is not the main reason you want to talk to her. For example, if you approach her and say, "My cousin is running a bake sale this week to help my nephew pay his school fees, if you give me your number, I can update you on the time and place." You could also ask for her number to inform her about a garage sale, or an anime convention, or a movie discount day, or offer to give her a ride to church and ask for her number etc..

If you can't think of a reason to ask for her number, ask for her Facebook or instagram instead. I know guys with very easy to search names, you could create one that anybody can look up like, "I love green rhinos," or "New York biscuit eater..."

Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

Don't overcomplicate it-

Next time you see her, just talk to her like you normally do, smile, and ask her, "Hey, I really like talking to you and would really like to get to know you more. Could I get your number?"

She will either say yes or no, hopefully the former.

stepyo99 · Accepted Answer

Don't overthink it - while chatting with her, invite her to do something with you over the weekend and get her number to stay in contact. If she's interested, she won't think you're a creep and will be happy you asked. If she's not interested, she might think you're a creep, but women can be childish like that.

There's no way to get over the nervousness other than repetition. Keep forcing yourself to talk to not just women, but everybody, and inviting them to hang out/ask for their number.

Vegasrunner · Accepted Answer

Asking for a number while a girl is working is tough. You need to find out what she like to do outside of work first (either directly or indirectly) and then try to coordinate a way to run into her outside of work. It's easier to generate social proof from a woman when she sees you outside work.

Unit1 · Answer

Oh, this is an easy one. Watch and learn.

How do I ask for a girls phone number without sounding like a creep?

If you get a reaction like above, ask if she wants to get to know each other better and exchange contact information.

In the reaction below, run like hell before she whistles her rape whistle.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

Be yourself & walk up to the gas station girl & say the following.  Like your gas station you make my heart pump so how about filling my phone up with your number.

Billlewis · Answer

Make sure there's no one nearby when you ask her for it, or you're almost certain to be rejected. No woman wants to be viewed as easy to get a phone number from, so wait until she's by herself.

BlissfullyCurSed · Answer

Ask her permission to use her phone, then add your phone number to her contacts. Giver her a phone call in the evening. If it works, it works, but if it doesn't, well...

inhua · Answer

be as physically attractive as you can possibly be or at least attractive in her view this will solve 99% of your problems down the line

Anonymous · Answer

If you stay in control it ain't creepy man. Like this!

Nikki1989 · Answer

You just ask. It is not complicated.

MackBoy · Answer

Even i feel so nervous to speak with my girlfriend openly

LiamJHayden · Answer

You give her yours.

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe just hand her a note that you wrote earlier

How do I ask for a girls phone number without sounding like a creep?

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