Ok, so if she didn't ask for my phone number, and then responded with "we'll see" or "I'll think about it", then I would assume no, because girls are subtle with rejections, but it has no sense that she asked for my phone number, we chatted back and forth, and when invited, she plays hard to get. When I was like, c mon, that is not an answer, she was like, well, I don't want to say yes and then to not be able to come? Wtf.
It's not just her, I've noticed this trend with a lot of younger pretty girls, they always give that bs responses like "don't have time for that", "we'll see", "I'll think about it", "I'll let you know", "maybe", etc. Ok, some of the girls like to see if a guy will be persistent, but if a guy starts chasing you for a date, he will appear desperate and without options, thus you will play even more hard to get. What's up with that?
I am never insecure via texts, neutral, clingy, desperate, or anything similar, yet, most hot girls respond like that. Too many options I guess.
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I’m attractive and I play hard to get often. Why? Because for the most part, the men just want to sleep with me without even getting to know me, but a man who was actually interested would give a little effort. It’s not always on the woman, sometimes she just gets a lot of male attention and it’s hard to filter that out but from what I’ve seen, men who only like you for strictly sex filter out at the first wall and move on.
What’s up with men not wanting to work for a girls attention these days? You don’t like how attractive women act, go get an average girl. You can not go after the best looking and expect her to not have standards and options when you talk to her. If the guy acts like you I would play hard to get, too because you have a bitchy attitude.
Bitchy attitude? Lmao... I asked a girl out several times in the space of a week, and always got some bs answer... what would happen if I continue asking out? Ofc, girls will play even harder to get, cause I would appear low value, as if not having other options. No one would put up with that crap. You girls would give up after one vague answer from a man, yet you expect to reject us 3x in a row, and we should continue to pursue you? Lmao
Move on you're wasting your time
Yeah, you're right.