Girl calls me too much everyday?

[luisjr]

We just Facebook chatted one time a few days ago and she gave me her number without me asking for it. She wanted me to call her so I did. The thing is that now she keeps calling me like 2 or 3 times a day and I don't really like talking on the phone that much. Sometimes I don't pick up and she ended up texting me saying, " Bro, you have a problem answering your phone." Last night she called me and kept me up past one talking. I felt like going to sleep so I tried making excuses and she just said, " Bro, your just making excuses right now, I want to talk cause I don't feel like sleeping." I wouldn't mind that much if it was a girl that liked me but I doubt that she likes me by the way conversations go. Also, she is a girl in the process of divorce and has 3 kids. Why would she be calling me so much if she doesn't like me that way. Also, is it weird that she calls me her brother when we have only talked for about 5 days? Also, yesterday she called me and asked me where I am and I said the park and she came to the park to spend time with me. She is 25 and so am I. What do you think about this?

[heavenonearth]

Okay, she's going way over the top. Even if my best friend called me 2-3 times a day I'd be climbing at the walls and asking her to please stop. It seems like she's lonely, probably stressed with the divorce, and you're the lucky person she's chosen to talk to 24/7 to keep her occupied.

You need to be more firm. If someone I was clearly trying to get off the phone with because it's late told me "Bro, you're just making excuses right now, I want to talk cause I don't feel like sleeping", I'd get pretty annoyed and be like "Yeah, well I'm hanging up because *I'm* tired and I feel like sleeping, so good night."

You'll have to be semi-blunt with her or she's not going to get it. Tell her exactly what you said here, that you don't like talking on the phone that much. You don't "have a problem answering your phone", you just don't want to talk all the time, because you're busy and have stuff going on. If you feel like you want to be friends with her and stay in contact, you can let her know that if she wants to talk she can call at X time. Then just make sure you're not on the phone longer than you want to be.

Honestly, I wouldn't really like talking to and being around a person like that, but if you're okay with it or want to then you just need to set some boundaries. If she can't respect that and keeps calling you and going against what you're comfortable with despite what you've requested of her, then tell her you don't think you guys can be friends because she's not respecting your limits, and unfriend her on Facebook and block her number.

[MrsJones7]

25 years old 3 kids,in the process of getting a divorce? Damn she got a lot on her plate and probably needs to be banged on a love seat but stay clear from this lady because she isn't in her right mind. She probably just needs company to get her mind off of her ex husband to be and kids. She got a lot of baggage and you don't even sound like you like her so next time she calls text her you don't know what the reason is for yall to talk on the phone all the time while you aren't even a phone person

Harsh maybe but you gotta let her know

[incredible-pinkie]

Sounds like she wants attention. It may just be me, but she also sounds needy which could be because she is going through a divorce.

[Gawesome]

hold up...3 kids and she's 25 now? Damn! She wastes no time poppin' babies! She screams CLINGY. Tell her to back off and that you need space. Choose your words carefully because I assume she's really fragile with her divorce.

Ten bucks says she may try to sleep with you soon...lol If you're smart, you better not or you'll opening a whole other can of worms...

[Anonymous]

It seems that she's desperate to be with a guy in the moment since she's divorced and wanting a man so badly.

[Anonymous]

Bunny boiler alert!

She sounds lonely and desperate for attention/companionship. I'd be careful if I were you, her behavior isn't normal.

[Anonymous]

Maybe she's just lonely and needs someone to keep her company

[luisjr]

Hmm, maybe that's it. I don't know why she would be since she has a lot of friends

[Anonymous]

just think of this . You have a woman who likes you while ugly people like me would kill to have a female like me

[Anonymous]

Sounds like she's female.

[luisjr]

Lol what you mean, that all females are like this?

[Opinion Owner]

Not all, but it's common.