The best way to ask for a girl's number is to have a reason. Which is pretty easy, just make up a date first. If you're talking to her, ask her what she likes or find out from her part of the conversation. Then turn it into a date. Literally anything she says you can turn into a date idea:
Oh, you like ducks? There's a really great duck pond I know, would you like to go feed them with me sometime? --> ok, cool, well I'll need your phone number.
oh you like food? I happen to eat food myself regularly! Maybe you'd like to consume some food together sometime? --> ok, cool, well I'll need your phone number.
You sleep every night? omg, me too! We should really chat more about what else we might have in common. Would you like to meet up sometime you're not working? --> ok, cool, well I'll need your phone number.
You can also just come right out and say "would you like to hang out sometime you're not working?" without finding her interests. It's just more interesting I think to create something unique with her.
Well, first of, don't.
The connection is them doing their job. It also might be more.
When I did more front-desk type stuff I did end up asked out a few times and what I appreciated was basically the following formula:
1. Very upfront. Simple. "I like you. You're cute/hot/something.."
2. Not asking me for personal details. So rather, it was good when they handed theirs over. " hot and if you want to go out sometime... here is my number.. give me a call/text/something.".
3. A simple clarification of no-expectations. ".. if you do, awesome! And if not, still the best help/coffee/whatever around so I'll come back anyway just like before!".
Avoids so many pitfalls. Fits into a typical work-routine and covers potential future options with no pressure. Obviously, live up to it after.
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Give her your number and ask for hers.
First of all, hitting on wait staff is a hard target and generally a poor idea. They are literally paid to be friendly and all too often dudes think the chick is flirting when she’s just trying to bump up her tips. I know so many women who expressed deep frustration over this.
If you are going to hit on them just leave your number with her ask her to call or text if she would like to meet up outside of work sometime. Leaves the ball in her court and since 95% of the time she isn’t really into her customer anyhow it keeps it from being awkward.
Rule #1 Don’t shit where you eat.
Rule #2 Hitting on wait staff, cashiers etc is always kind of bad form. They are an employee. They basically HAVE to be nice with you, be friendly, and maybe even show a little cleavage and flirt if they want a nice tip. In other words, if they appear interested they may not be, and if they don’t or you’re not sure and you shoot your shot, you’ve suddenly placed them in a compromised position. You’re still in their place of business, they are working, and they have a boss. Not to mention other customers.
They cannot react honestly to you.
I've occasionally asked women if I can pay for their next date with their boyfriend, and a couple of them have agreed to let me do that for them.
u I don't think that... hitting on girls while I am paying them is the best idea...
1) Tell that your phone is dead and you want to make an urgent call
2) When she gives you her phone , call yourself with it (Keep your phone in silent)
3) Her number is now visible in your missed calls log
ask to borrow her phone cause yours died then text yourself. kidding (sort of) but seriously though just ask and/or offer her your number first
Don't.. simply give her yours.. and see if she calls. This also gives her time to decide.
Maybe extend the pricing by random numbers acting like you thought it was the start of her phone number, then ask her if it's the correct one 🤷♂️
I have no problem approaching and asking, but I find it unfair to do so to someone who is working.
Just be direct. Best of luck
spill coffee on them to initiate a friendly spark
Don’t hit on girls at their jobsite. 🤔
m "would it be ok if i call you?"
just ask her or offer yours
Ask her out.
don’t do it
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