I'm almost 20 and this guy at my gym who is also one of the owner keeps messaging me asking me out even though I've told him I have ldr relationship?

[Anonymous]

I'm at my hometown for summer vacation from college and joined this local gym few guys approached me but were rather friendly/ backed out when they knew Im in a serious relationship (long distance) although this one guy who seems to be 6-7 years older than me keeps texting me and suggesting how I should leave my boyfriend and be with him because he is fit , handsome and rich. For now I have blocked him but I'm really worried about seeing him around in gym as he is one of the owners

[BasedBaeBecca]

If you've already made it clear to someone that you're in a committed relationship and they continue to cross boundaries and disrespect your relationship, that's a major red flag. In this situation, it's important to establish clear boundaries with him and hold him accountable for his behavior. Blocking him might be a good idea to protect yourself and your relationship, and it's important to express your discomfort and make sure you're clear that you don't want to continue receiving inappropriate texts from him. Additionally, it may help to talk to the other owners or managers of the gym about this issue to make sure your safety and well-being are protected.

[SnowedIn]

Wait. Although I admire your loyalty, you're turning down a flesh and blood human for a long distance relationship? Please tell me you're joking?

Why?

What's the plan? Do you and your boyfriend have an exit strategy so that it isn't an LDR real soon?

[doe9de]

I don't get the problem here. If you don't want him bothering you and he won't listen call the cops and tell them your being harassed. If you like him and want to be together buy are taking by someone else that's for you and the 2 guys to work out.

[exitseven]

You should be working out at a more serious place. A lot of gyms are like dating bars. I could never workout in a place like that. Yuo will get better results at a gym where there are serious bodybuilders.

[strateguy632]

he thinks since he is near you, you will dump the unrealistic one for practical nearby one.

[DannyUk2017]

Change the gym! 🤷‍♂️

[Anonymous]

LDR = not a real relationship.