He told me that looks and brains-wise I’m a potential future wife. Is this a good thing or condescending?

[Anonymous]

[BoopBoopBeep]

I would... assume so... I mean... that's a big part of it. What else is missing buy physical really? You're hot, you're witty, the sex could still suck I guess, due to nobody's fault but incompatibility. That would be a deal breaker, but at a minimum you're knocking out some big chunks of "congrats" there. Has he SAID what the other part or parts are that he's determining if you have now?

[Asker]

He hasn’t said anything I’m lacking or anything. Just then followed up the next day asking if I’m single.

[BoopBoopBeep]

sounds promising then :)

[Asker]

He asked me what I like to do when I’m dating someone (I. e. places to go, etc)

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I have been told that more than a few times, I am single though.

Tell you what, deep down they also like bad girls and then they feel surprised when they get f**ed up.

I am not complaining though, cause I am not an angel either.

[Alli39]

If you're romantically involved it's probably a compliment, if a weirdly worded one. Otherwise, it might be either. Depends on his tone/general views on that kind of thing.

[Anonymous]

Depends on how he said it. Was he being condescending when he said it?

[Jazzy54]

Firstly, who’s he?

[Asker]

We’ve just started dating. He’s a guy I know through my professional network.

[Jazzy54]

Oh okay. Anyway, I’d say that’s a compliment. 😌

[Asker]

He’s so much smarter than me though. He has a PhD and internship at a super hard place to get into. I only have a bachelors degree but I made VP at a bank at 25/26 years old.