I think this guy thinks I’m soft and now he’s avoiding me?

[Anonymous]

Everything was cool.. he was playful etc and he aggressively smacked something out my hand at work. I was too stunned to speak low key but he said he was just joking and he did pick it up… but after that he straight started avoiding me..

I was so confused. I feel like he likes the type of girls that will curse him out or do something tough idk… but something just went off after that.. he doesn’t even look at me.

I don't know if he’s playing games or if he just thinks I’m weak

[Anonymous]

Were you visibility annoyed after he knocked something out of your hand? He mght think he can't joke around with you like that and feels he has to walk on egg shells around you

[Asker]

No, I was honestly just surprised. I told myself that a guy who actually liked you wouldn’t do that.., but I wasn’t annoyed or mad.

I was playfully in shock.

[spartan55]

He doesn't even work there any more.

[Asker]

I just said he does. He was just on vacation. He came back

[spartan55]

You put in your two weeks notice. Want to keep going? Just stop already.

[Asker]

Yeah a couple days ago… I do still work here

What are you talking about

[spartan55]

Nothing, go do your thing with other users. I don't have the energy.

[spartan55]

He's not into you. Repeat it again to yourself. Save yourself some time.

[Asker]

I can’t just assume that tho.

[spartan55]

Yeah, you sure can.