My boyfriend said that he tolerates me coz of my BJ's?

[Anonymous]

Its been a yr of relationship with my boyfriend. Our relationship is having issues like many disrespectful actions of him, him acting shady, him saying mean things. Once I was trying to repeatedly make him understand the things that are hurting me. So, after the conversation I told him thanks for tolerating me and he said that I give good BJ's so he is tolerating me. What to interpret from this? Am I in the wrong?

[msmissydc]

Get out of there. He is disrepecting you and than tell you he is tolerating you because of BJs... GET OUT!
To translate that: he doesn't want you, he dosnt like you, he only tolerates you because he can use you for sex!

[Asker]

Thanks for your suggestion 😊 it hurts but it's best for me to let him go

[ShesRad80]

he's an ahole, further disrespecting you. basically telling you if you didn't give him BJs you wouldn't be worth his time and he wouldn't be with you. real question is why are you tolerating this behavior?

[Asker]

Thanks for your opinion 😊 gonna break up with him asap

[ShesRad80]

💕💕👍✌

[MementoMori777]

nope he's just 💩

i think you are putting in effort anf not getting any back and to top it all of he's treating you like shit, even if you loved him I don't know why you are in that relationship

[Asker]

I really appreciate your opinion i'm gonna leave him asap

[MementoMori777]

i hope it all goes well and you find some real love out there anon

[Asker]

Hopefully 🍀 thank you for those kind words 😊

[MementoMori777]

🙂💯

[JackCarter]

He indirectly meant that he just wants you to satisfy his physical needs...
I am not sure whether he meant it or not... but someone who really loves you would never say anything like that.

[Asker]

Thanks for your valuable opinion😊. You know he put "😜" this emoji while saying that. What do you think about this?

[JackCarter]

Oh.. that emoji actually seems to imply that he was not serious or something..
I don't know about the background of the conversation , but this emoji just seemed like he was teasing you playfully and not in a way to insult / be harsh to you...
Seems I was wrong about him!!!

[LiamJHayden]

I would take him at his word. He doesn't care about you at all, except for the physical pleasure you give him.

[Asker]

Thanks for your valuable opinion 😊

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

This dude doesn't respect you at all. Get rid of him lest by the time you're done with him you're self esteem and confidence is destroyed.

[Asker]

Sure 😊 I'm gonna do that thank you 😊

[Wise4myage]

He deserves to be dumped for saying that.

[Asker]

Thank you for your valuable suggestion 😊

[Wise4myage]

You're welcome.