Is he interested to me or not?

[haiuyu]

I see him looking at me in the gym. But the thing is, he never even smile at me or try to talk to me. He sometimes try to work out near me, avoiding eye contact. But from afar, I see him looking at me sometimes.

Earlier, we saw each other outside the gym. He's walking towards my location, and I'm outside a restaurant waiting to be seated (coz I'm hungry after the workout). When he saw me, he slowed down his walking, took a seat outside the restaurant, and looked back. Then he stood up, and tried to walk back but when he saw me looking at him, he "retreated". I mean, WTF? Whyyyyy? 😆

I'm not really sure if he even want to approach me or not because he never smiles and he never "grabs the chance". Like, is this a game or what?

[IeatChickenandFish]

If he's like me, he's afraid to approach because he's been treated horribily in the past. You have to give him an oppurtunity to open. Or do it yourself maybe.

Just ask him "hey did I see you at the [resturant] the other night?" And maybe follow up with "do you want to go to [resturant] after?" Don't be so pompous, just be chill, as he will react the same way.

[haiuyu]

I'm not pompous. I'm just really not sure if he is into me or not. Coz what if he's not, then I approach him, and I'll look very stupid. And just like anyone else, I don't like the feeling of being rejected and embarrassed. And as I said, he never smiles. So maybe he's a snob as well?

[Wise4myage]

I think you should try approaching him.

[haiuyu]

Why? I honestly don't know what to say to him. And he never even smile at me.