Is he interested in me or not?

[Anonymous]

Hey all, so I’ve been seeing this guy for a while now almost 2 months.. we’ve been dating and spending time together. Yeah yeah I know what you will say lol. We haven’t been spending time as in (sex all the time ) time lol. We’ve been going out to places and to eat a lot and spending times together.. so far what I’ve known about him is that possibly his ex partner cheated on him or something like that and I’m not sure if that’s why he doesn’t tell me things like “I like you “ this and that but his actions have spoken so much louder than his words. He buys me lunch or dinner , takes me out , likes for me to spend time with him a lot & just little things here and there that I feel might be hard for him to say but his actions speak otherwise. Whenever I get into bad moods like I’ve recently have , he calls or listens. In his words cares about what I got to say on why I’m upset etc etc and just talk it out and listen. I won’t force him to tell me things because like I said before his actions have said a lot to me that I don’t need words.. he’s just a little bit difficult for me to get too talk or stuff. He isn’t much into PDAS so we don’t really hold hands or kiss or hug or whatever in public.. I’m just having a hard time knowing if he really is interested in me or not.. sincerely, one confused gal.

[Nawlins34]

1.) Hey all, so I’ve been seeing this guy for a while now almost 2 months.. we’ve been dating and spending time together. Yeah yeah I know what you will say lol. - Good, because I'm still saying it, LOL.

2.) We haven’t been spending time as in (sex all the time ) time lol. - you're good; nor did you say you "we haven't had sex".

3.) We’ve been going out to places and to eat a lot and spending times together.. so far what I’ve known about him is that possibly his ex partner cheated on him or something like that and I’m not sure if that’s why he doesn’t tell me things like “I like you “ this and that but his actions have spoken so much louder than his words. He buys me lunch or dinner , takes me out , likes for me to spend time with him a lot & just little things here and there that I feel might be hard for him to say but his actions speak otherwise. - Yes! look at his actions! You're ahead of the curve.

4.) Whenever I get into bad moods like I’ve recently have , he calls or listens. In his words cares about what I got to say on why I’m upset etc etc and just talk it out and listen. I won’t force him to tell me things because like I said before his actions have said a lot to me that I don’t need words.. he’s just a little bit difficult for me to get too talk or stuff. He isn’t much into PDAS so we don’t really hold hands or kiss or hug or whatever in public.. I’m just having a hard time knowing if he really is interested in me or not.. sincerely, one confused gal. - Okay, I think you're the source of your own confusion here.

I'm going by his actions based on what you provided us, This guy speaks with his actions and clarifies with his words. This is why his words are few and far in between.

His actions say he adores you and is very much interested. I think you have a biased towards guys who will tell you how they feel as well as show it.

He's "telling" you through his actions but you want to hear it. This is a problem. It's worth having the conversation with him (I assume it didn't happen because you don't mention how he feels about it).

Talk to him about it and get the clarification you need. This is not a hard conversation, but to make sure he's sincere, don't have it while he's holding you. Sit somewhere where you both can look face-to-face and talk this out.

Don't be afraid to ask him. Good luck and be safe.

[w7itney]

I think that you should either ask him how he feels about you or just tell him how you feel about him

[mich15smith]

just ask him