Guys does it feel different to sleep with someone you crush on instead of meaningles hookups?

[Solstraale]

[Anonymous]

Yes of course. When it comes to someone you have a crush on you treat her different, better, make sure she’s comfortable, take care of her needs, hold her, kiss hr passionately. You make sure she’s completely comfortable w you, to make her feel protected, cared for like there’s no one else in the world besides her. W a one night stand there’s really no feelings involved other than being horny. In those situations you’re not so concerned w her feelings, pleasing her in bed, etc.

[JackCarter]

Yes! No doubt!

Cause sex is a way of expressing love... so the more you love your partner passionately, the more passionate and sweet the making out would be!

Random hookups are just a slightly better alternative to masturbation, ... not comparable to the earlier case...

[Losalt]

Yes.
Each has their own advantages.
But you loving someone add a totally different emotional dimension to it all.
There's kinks of mine that I don't feel comfortable with practicing with someone I love. (I'm a sadist)

[Solstraale]

Because it doesn't feel good to hurt someone you care about?

[BoopBoopBeep]

It's preferable, sure. It's not required, but it's preferable.

[nawtee_me]

Why do hookups have to be meaningless? Every person I have hooked up with has meaningful in some way. Time spent with someone should not be meaningless.

[ProbablyClueless]

Yes, very much so. The feeling after a meaningless hookup is empty and honestly sucks.

[Sparkie460]

I've never had meaningless sex. If I don't know them for a while and there's no chemistry I don't sleep with them

[Raaj4you]

Yes, you are right. But what can I do if crushes are not ready to sleep with me? So hookup is the only option left.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't know. I wouldn't sleep with someone I didn't love.

[Guido]

Yes because there are intimate feelings involved.

[LunarEclipse433]

Yes. A lot more meaning at least to me

[Luckycharms12]

Of course definitely

[Solstraale]

Can you explain the difference?

[Luckycharms12]

You care for her. It's passionate full of lust and desire wanted it for so long Have to try to control yourself but it's hard

[EaterPeter]

Absolutely