Was this guy flirting with my mom In front of me?

[Inthebloom]

I think he was flirting with my mom in front of me. He told her she looked like this actress and said "you're pretty" " she's so pretty " "She's beautiful" by the way I have a slight crush on this guy that said this to my mom so it's triggering.

[Anonymous]

Doesn’t mean he was flirting w her. Maybe he’s just trying to get on her good side. Ultimately yes the girl or boy decides who they want to be w but if they can get along w the parents, parents love them, the parents may try to encourage their child to choose him or her. Plus to me if a girl gets along w my family in my eyes I love her that much more. But of course I’d your mom’s hot he may have been flirting. Can’t say since I don’t know what she looks like.

[Inthebloom]

My. Mom looks like an older brooke shields but it's not like she's "hot" I think my mom's beautiful but I wouldn't call her hot he is way younger than her

[Opinion Owner]

What does him being way younger than her have to do w it?

[Inthebloom]

Cause normally men prefer younger women so it hurts my feelings like.. I'm that plain lol

[Opinion Owner]

Honestly as men when we’re younger a lot of us tend to like older women. When I was 25 I was w a lady who was 45. But like I said doesn’t mean he was flirting w her. Maybe just trying to make good w your mom that she will approve of him.

[Inthebloom]

He didn't show signs of being into me so why would he do that

[Opinion Owner]

I’m sorry I thought this was your boyfriend or something. Where did this take place? Maybe he isn’t interested in you. Maybe your mom is really cute. Like I said a lot of younger men like older women

[Inthebloom]

No he's not my boyfriend I just have a crush on him.. that's why I'm taking it as a rejection

[Opinion Owner]

I’m sorry to hear that. Would you say you look like your mom? Have you tried talking to him?

[Inthebloom]

People say that
Someone said I look exactly like her when she was younger. It's just usually I'm the one that gets hit on its just kinda embarrassing. I haven't

[Opinion Owner]

How is it embarrassing? Did this happen in front of a lot of people? Maybe you should try talking to him. But honestly I gotta tell you the truth here. You want the truth about something? Like from what a man would be thinking.

[Inthebloom]

Yes I do haha

[Opinion Owner]

So if he’s really into your mom cause she looks appealing sexually then gets w you, chances are he’s going to be thinking of her at times if he’s w you sexually or while masturbating.

[Inthebloom]

My mom is a respectful woman she's not showing off her body ever she's mature and always covers up. But that's such a turn off and i am gonna move on from him now if that's the case lmao he ain't it

[Inthebloom]

Also she's not appealing sexually at all lmao

[Opinion Owner]

Doesn’t matter that’s your opinion not his or how other men perceive her.

[Inthebloom]

You're right she is beautiful anyway I can say that she's my mom I'm not gonna call her sexy or anything caus wim not a weirdo also I'm not into him anymore after that I just felt a bit offended as I'm young and he is closer to my age. thanks for the help !

[Opinion Owner]

You’re welcome. Trust me you’ll meet
Someone. All the pain, the hurt that we go through w relationships will seem to disappear when we find that one special person who we’re with.

[Inthebloom]

Thanks I actually needed to hear that. It's hard out here haha

[Opinion Owner]

Trust me I get it. I know it’s harder for a lot of younger people these days. People tend to say well kids these days have it so much easier. Sure they may have it easier technology wise but I think it’s a stage in aging. As you get older things aren’t so tough, you’ve developed a different mentality than when you were in your teens, twenties. Have you been in an actual relationship before?

[Inthebloom]

Only one lol

[BoopBoopBeep]

Could go either way. Your mom could have some serious MILF energy or he could figure if the parents like him it's easier to get around you. Do you have any occasion to see him regularly?

[Inthebloom]

That is honestly a weird way to try and get around me isn't it? Like would you personally do that just to get a girl? Wouldn't it be weird if a girl called your dad handsome in front of you haha

[Inthebloom]

I mean I'm not gonna call my mom a milf lmao ew but she is truly beautiful she looks like brooke shields

[BoopBoopBeep]

You said:

"He told her she looked like this actress and said "you're pretty" " she's so pretty " "She's beautiful"

Was that the extent of the flirting or was there more? I mean all in all, that's pretty innocent, especially if she actually IS beautiful. I've told people I'm seeing they have hot parents. Maybe it ws just a matter of fact sort of thing. Now if he said that while drooling and picking his jaw off the floor, that is a little different.

When people age they tend to favor their parents. If the object of my attention thinks my dad is hot...

But no, i meant do you have occasion to run into him regularly as in school/work/church/charity... something that is NOT purely social. Now that the threshold has been crossed, I expect if he IS interested in you that he'll be friendlier with you at those places.

[_vali]

Yes I think he’s flirting with her Is he aware you have a slight crush on him?

[Inthebloom]

No he's not aware

[Billlewis]

He probably was flirting with her... how does that make you feel?

[Inthebloom]

I mean sad cause if he flirted with her Infront of me than that means he basically rejecting me and prefers my mom who is way older

[Billlewis]

Oh, that's terrible! I'm sorry that happened to you.

[Staximus]

But did that guy even know you have a crush on him?

[Inthebloom]

Nope lol

[Anonymous]

Yes, he was definitely flirting, and that must have sucked for you to hear it.

[riverrat3]

What was her reaction

[Inthebloom]

Nothing she just moved on and she said he wasn't flirting with her she tried saying that he was too shy to flirt w me

[riverrat3]

We're you just jealous he spoke to her

[Inthebloom]

Kind of yeah I mean it's embarrassing isn't it that he's thinking she's beautiful and not me

[In_Trance]

yeah