My biggest insecurity is pooping at a guys place. Should I be worried about this, do men care?

[KiraDaniels]

I have gastroparesis, a stomach condition where my stomach is partially paralyzed. I can’t properly digest food, it makes it where I throw up and have diarrhea. It’s always really embarrassing to do this in front of someone. Since it’s a rare condition most people don’t understand its severity sometimes and that is completely understandable. I just fear of getting shamed for the smell I guess. I feel guilty for going to the bathroom at peoples homes.

[_Maya_]

You shouldn't feel guilty for having a medical issue. Anyone that shames you for that you shouldn't be with. We are human too. Some guys think we don't do a single gross thing or shouldn't. Hate to break it to them but we do. A guy that really and truly likes you won't care. Anyone that does means you deserve better than them. When you gotta go... ya gotta go.

[virtualwasp]

you are more adventurous than i, my dad used to drive me home to do a richard the third.

[DannyUk2017]

Shouldn't be worried at all, don't want to sound gross or anything, but if a guy likes to "hit it on the back door", that means should be acceptable with the "unforeseen" things that might come along...🤷‍♂️

[JackCarter]

No , of course not... you should actually talk about your medical condition with him

He would understand if he is a good guy cause the condition is not your fault.

[ShesRad80]

nothing to be worried about, its anormal human function in general.

[Anonymous]

Any guy that has a problem with it is a guy you should avoid anyway.

[BlackJeep]

For some reason my girlfriend tells me every time she poops. I think its weird but at the same time I don't mind the fact that she can tell me everything. Guys appreciate honesty.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

It's pretty gross, not gonna lie. But I don't think less of a girl for doing it

[AngryCarl2]

I understand how you feel. If I had that condition I wouldn't leave home for more than an hour. I am the exact opposite, in that I can't have a bowel movement unless I'm at home.

[Anonymous]

Probably not as much as women. Most guys find smelly farts funny. I think the guy would be more concerned about the severity and future implications.

[HazelHeart]

Personally I don't think it's a big deal! If you gotta go you gotta go, y'know? Maybe let him know about the condition? Most mature people won't care.

[DulceDelight]

If someone brings it up just explain it. Pretty sure most people will understand and, at most, crack a little joke.

[dudeinohio]

Carry air freshener and run the vent fan