What do men feel insecure about?

[HappyWoman34]

[Sonorous]

I personally feel most insecure about my intelligence level & facial attractiveness. I have a decent looking body now so I'm not insecure about that anymore. But if someone insults my looks or if they embarrass me intellectually to a significant degree, I'll feel somewhat strong feelings of inferiority than the average person might. However, the intensity of the feelings will differ depending on the situation.

[Lionman95]

These days body images meaning not having a sixpack, dick size or in general the body figure. Maybe also their rate of facial hair, getting bald in their 30s.
Other aspect is that some have a low self confidence/self esteem so they live their online or in front of screen and ignore the real world.

[Lionman95]

Thanks for the MHO.

[Wolf_Thunderspirit]

Oh gawd - so many things:

• Love and Approval of those we care about. This is huge for us. No one knows how much just a thank you and hug for what we do can mean; and encourages us only to do more; yet it's so often held back and often scorned.
• Health & Mental Health
• Job Security and Financial Stability
• Having all the things (Car, House, Vacations, Retirement Package/ Pension)
• Providing for those under our care
• Making sure those we care about are living right
• Happiness of our wife/ girlfriend (Happy wife/ happy life)
• Faithfulness of our wife/ girlfriend (Too much "for now" in forever, these days)
• Making sure we get into heaven; whatever concept we have of it - being good men

[Lynx122]

The main thing for me is still social things. Because I'm autistic I don't want to do anything "wrong" because I know I'm different than other people. So that uncertainty never fully goes away are they having a bad day or are they pissed off at me because I did something? Even though I've learned so much and improved and a lot of people say nobody can tell I'm autistic that I'm highly functioning and I'm doing so well I still have a lot of internal struggles.

Then with dating it's just mainly about the expectations that women have. Since I had to focus on myself a lot I didn't get a lot of experience so I still have a lot of things to learn. And also how will they react to my disability, my difficulty with working things like that.

[Lynx122]

This is why having an autistic girlfriend is a bit easier because she's more understanding about my struggles.

[NathanDavis]

that would be a long list... as it could be different things for different men too

[HappyWoman34]

What do you feel insecure about, as a man?

[Anonymous]

At my age I don’t give a sh*t about a lot of things. Most of my problems revolve around what am I going to eat.

[HappyWoman34]

I’m much the same.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Nothing really, I'm not an insecure person. In fact, I'm the one all my friends confide in when they have problems!

[JacobJordan]

Finances, self, clothes, social things other stuff as well I would presume

[Yannae]

Remaining in good health, both physically and mentally. Not just mine but those around me. And then stupid things like my technique on my right 540 kick.

[HawkPerception]

For me it's finances, credentials, appearance, and the way I talk

[OfMiceandMen]

Whether she'll like me for who I am once we truly get to know one another.

[DrPepper12]

Looks of every kind, height, weight, fashion, job, car, educational attainment, relatives i could go on and on

[RedInnocent69]

Everything. We’re just as fragile as girls. Often more so.

[OddBeMe]

Both genders are insecure about the same things…percieved differently.

Life is sex. We’re insecure about having it, wanting it, getting it on with others.

[ProbablyClueless]

Ability to make money. Ability to appeal to women.

[PA19062024]

I can't think of anything I feel insecure about.

[butterfly_nake87]

I am insecure about my body and penis size.

[Dongie]

Eeh, sorry, I just don't give a f*** anymore. 🥶

[HappyWoman34]

Maybe that’s getting more mature? Because at thirty five, I’m much the same as you in that view.

[Dongie]

Maturity, bored, same old song and dance.

[HappyWoman34]

Pretty much. Bored with trying to impress others.

[Dongie]

For true.

[Billlewis]

Our ability to reel in the one we want.

[OtterMan68]

approacahing women

[Awesomesauce2005]

My belly even though im 160 lbs and 5'9

[Jackblue]

dick size, how much we make, hair loss

[jahaims]

Different people have different insecurities