Guys, do you think about what kind of mother the girl you’re with would be like?

[Anonymous]

[abc3643]

Yes, always.
That's the difference between just having fun versus wanting a real long-term relationship with marriage. For instance, there are plenty of women who are very attractive to me and my young horny mind thinks "My God, I would love to fuck her!" But, there's another part of me that thinks "... but I don't want my kids to look like her."
When you are in real love, all the checkboxes are checked.
I've been in real love twice that led to devastating broken hearts. The first one occurred when I was about to turn 19 and was a freshman in college. It was my first broken heart. BUT, the second one was monumental. It occurred 10 years later almost to the day; I was 29. I never really recovered. She was the only girl that I ever saw truly marrying and having kids with. She checked off all the checkboxes for everything including being the mother of my kids. After her, I only dated women older than me with hysterectomies so I could not have kids.

[madhatters4]

certainly when i'm thinking if a girl is a potential life partner

but not very often

[Asker]

There’s a guy I’m talking to now and he mentioned something about me being a potential future wife, and also said something about “after you become my girlfriend” when I asked him a question.

[madhatters4]

thanks for MHO

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes, that makes me wonder.

[Anonymous]

All of the time... that's why I'm not with one...