Why do men use some women, and treat some like queens?

[Anonymous]

Some men use women and get from them everything they can

While they treat others as queens and give, not take

Why is that?

[ohsheeT]

All men are all different all women are all different

There are some guys out there that are just pigs will lie cheat say anything they can to get what they want and then walk away because that's who they really are believe me if they do that in one breath and then start treating somebody like a queen it's just a matter of time before that Queen goes to the same thing because that man is who he is truly
That's truly who they are but at the same time there are women out there that want a guy so bad that they're going to allow this to happen and that's what really sucks


Whether it's a girl or a guy you know within 15 minutes exactly who they are but you have to be honest with yourself and think something different because it's not going to be different it's going to be that's who they are that's who they're going to be and you have a choice to either allow it or to walk away from it

If you don't walk away from it then I guess it's your own fault I don't know because men or men they don't give a f*** they only care about themselves not all men most men

And if you would pay attention to
The way guys answer questions on here they come straight out and tell you that they're an a****** without even knowing it

[Lionman95]

I think there are various reasons for that.
Some guys treat a woman like a queen because they´ve been raised that way and they are emotionally heathy to see in her an addition to his life that is inspiring and life giving.
Some guys treat a woman as a queen because they know they don´t get many chances with women.
Some guys use women because they see a woman just as some contact to get what they want.
Some guys use women because they don´t value anything else than themselves and they are looking for chances in life to get what they want.
I think the main reason why guys use women is that they see woman as an instrument to get something.

[Biancam13]

In my experience it's usually a personality / compatibility issue. The girls some men settle down with are compatible with them not just on a looks level; they are a best friend as well to the guy so are treated as more than an object.

Or some men treat some girls like a "queen" because they are more their exact type in looks and are therefore 'good enough' to respect and treat well.

Or the girls men treat like queens are the ones they don't view as easy or attention-seeking. That's why some women have a rule of sleeping with guys too early on in the dating process.

But in my view, the men who do this or carry this mentality are usually low-quality themselves. As a general rule, the way people treat others that they don't want anything from, is very revealing of their true personality. So a guy who's an arsehole to women he doesn't want to date is just an arsehole full-stop. That's not a man I would have any interest in anyway.

[Enaya]

Men put women in boxes based on how they look and behave. So a woman can set the standard, but she cannot control his interpretation of it. I am a reserved woman with very old classy style, I get treated with a kind of fear and amazement. I get respect maybe because I am not bubbly, some across secure to the point of being hard, etc. But it doesn’t mean there weren’t men who mistakenly thought they would play me and make me their good time girl. I corrected that very fast. So have boundaries and be willing to let go of anyone who does not treat you how you want to be treated. That is all you can do.

[DermalPunch]

Men are like little boys. When they first meet you and interact, they temperature-check to see where you will put your foot down.

They ask questions loke "why did you break up" with your last ex. NEVER EVER answer this question. This is to see how he can treat you and what you will tolerate.

So say you say my ex was abusive and hit me. He says OK she cam tolerate that. So now he will put you in a little box.

The queens, as you out it, either have money or status or they know the tricks men play and their willingness to walk away very early and check a guy on even the smallest little tests commands respect.

You think you are being juice but he puts you in doormat box. Speaking from experience.

[BlackBeauty90]

The typical man uses a woman who dresses cheaply, acts cheaply and so he treats her as how others treat a prostitute. Typically such women sleep around and are more adept at one night stands than meaningful relationships so WHY should he put in any efforts.

The typical man treats a decent woman who dresses and acts responsiblity / respectfully as a queen. This is someone he may want to marry and have kids with. She, unlike the women above, are most certainly worth treating well and putting effort into.

It's that simple. The average man doesn't want to waste time and effort on a cheaply dressing/acting woman that has been around the block. She's good for cheap sex, booty calls and friends with benefits arrangement but she will never receive much and she'll almost never meet his friends or family.

[PrincessBunBuns]

has nothing to do with the value of the women… sometimes.


the man who couldnt treat you right might treat somebody else better than you, and could be because they learned from you. or, yk, they actually like that person better than you. 💀 we all have our preferences, just dont get played.

[gothbxtch]

some people are assholes and some are nice, in general.

[yulbsari]

Yes, has nothing to do with gender.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Are we talking about different men or why would the SAME man treat one woman well and one poorly?

[Hinaaaaa]

Depends on the woman herself... how she wants to get treated

[Billlewis]

I always treat every woman I encounter like absolute royalty, and if she thinks I'm a total loser, I literally worship the ground she walks on.

[Wonderingguyy]

Cause most men are shit and inconsistent and have no clue what they actually want. So until they work it out, everyone else has to pay for it in some way i guess

[abeymm99]

If the woman gives me everything, why I treat her like a queen? if I take what I want. in the other way, I treat a woman as a queen if I still need to take more and she always gives less to keep me thirsty. it's logic!

[ProbablyClueless]

Sometimes it's a question of personality type compatibility issues. Other times it's because the guy learns from his past relationships.

[Anonymous]

I have a question for you. Can a man use a woman that has strict boundaries that she never ever crosses no matter what?

[shades777]

because men are different, need to ask a more specific question, this one is very vague.


for example
what type of man uses a woman (add type of way) for his benefit?

[Exterminatore]

Why do women use most men and treat a few like kings?

[KrakenAttackin]

If you want to be a queen you need to treat a man like a king.

[Exterminatore]

Women on the whole are entirely too selfish and need to be the center of attention too much, for most of them, to treat anyone like a king.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Exterminatore Very true and Hoeflation has only increased this selfish impulse.

[Exterminatore]

Exactly. Hoeflation 😂😂😂😂

[DextroShade]

Some women deserve to be treated well while many others deserve to be treated like crap.

[In_Trance]

Do you think this is the fault of men or fault of women?

[Asker]

Its nobodys fault its the way people are
I want to understand why

[In_Trance]

Lots of people both men and women are takers. They will take whatever you have to offer.
In the scenario that you presented maybe that's all the women have to offer. They're not treated like Queens because they don't present themselves as Queens

[Lokiion]

You not gonna get a 100% answer asking this since everyone wired differently

[JackCarter]

Depends on how the man was raised !

[Sonorous]

Iono ask chatgpt

[jahaims]

Some women are quality

[Asker]

Who are quality and who a re not
How do you know?

[jahaims]

Everyone places different values on different things.