Why do men put women in categories like wife or just fuck buddy, who died and made them king?

[Anonymous]

[OneViewpoint]

Who died and made them King? Ummm... we are all the King or Queen of our own lives. We each get to decide who we'd fuck, date, marry, or not touch with a 10 foot pole. Sounds like you have a problem with other people making their own choices. Good luck with that.

[ProbablyClueless]

It's usually because of the way the personalities mesh together.

But for what it's worth, it's really common for people to have preconceptions about exactly what someone will be in their life. No matter how good you are, the person just has their specific idea about who and what you'll be; and that's that. There's no convincing them otherwise.

[Gwendoline]

You mean categories related to them. I believe everyone is monarch of their own minds.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

The patriarchy gives men the audacity and nothing else of value

[Anonymous]

So, what? Should women decide who men marry? I don't understand the point of this question.

If a guy decides that a woman isn't the type of woman he wants to marry, for whatever reason, that somehow makes him a jerk? Who the hell gave you the right to pass judgement on someone else's preferences?

[red-lipstick-girl]

This situation exists in almost every country. It is difficult to understand men. It is difficult to know what they want.

[SotiCoto]

Not to wax lyrical... but every man is king of his own story, and those sorts of categories are entirely subjective. They are of no consequence outside their own imaginary narrative.

[Nikki1989]

They are not quality men, or even men for that matter.

[slatyb]

Why do you care what those men do? Date men who don't.

[jahaims]

Do you not understand what an opinion or preference is?

[spartan55]

Oh look, another woman avoiding accountability.

[TheoreticallyGreat]

There's a secret here

[MasterKS]

Its choice and preferences.