Is he mocking me for my size?

[Anonymous]

A guy I used to know sent me a social media post; saying, ‘I die for big women!’ With a cartoon of him with a big boned, big breasted woman who looks just like me sitting in his lap. I used to like him years ago and he knows that, but we don’t talk anymore. What is this? I happen to know he likes skinny, tall women in James Bond movies. So I suspect he’s mocking me. But he’s autistic, so I don’t know.

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+1 y

I’m autistic too. I’m seeking truth. Is he being an arsehole?

[AaronKrieger]

I doubt it. I like skinny tall women, but I also like chubby women too. Hell, I somewhat prefer it over a girl being skinny.

He likely is trying to flirt with you unless he makes those type of jokes often. If so, then he's being flirty in a way that's not meant to be taken seriously other than as a compliment.

[MementoMori777]

Maybe it grew on him, I didn't like thick women either until it grew on me, it's possible for taste to change believe it or not

[Asker]

I’m not sure. It just seems like an odd thing for him to say.

[MementoMori777]

It's possible he might actually like It, mocking you would be pointless

[Asker]

So it might be intended as a compliment?

[MementoMori777]

Well yea, if it's sitting on him lap it means he like it more than mocking the

[MementoMori777]

Tbh*

[rm_llort]

Nah he trying to flirt.