I dumped a coworker who took me out on dates and then pressured me for sex non stop and didn’t succeed. Why was he looking at me in the break area?

[Uglybasterff]

told his dumb self to stop contacting me weeks ago then blocked him. He’s so repulsive I couldn’t even force myself to hold his hand like he kept begging me to. Why does he think he still has a shot? Go look at ugly chicks.

[Anonymous]

Because you have not been harsh enough on him prior. ﾠ

[Oliverlogan263]

You’re dealing with a difficult situation, and it's important to establish clear boundaries and ensure your own personal safety and comfort. However, it's not possible for me or anyone else to perfectly interpret someone else's thoughts or motivations without direct communication with them.

As for why he might be looking at you, it could be due to a variety of reasons – perhaps he's confused, seeking closure, or just not respecting your explicit request for no contact. It's crucial to note that none of these reasons excuse his behavior.

If you feel uncomfortable or harassed, consider reporting the behavior to your workplace's human resources department or a supervisor. It's important to document any unprofessional or inappropriate behavior, especially if it continues after you've clearly asked him to stop.

As for his thinking that he still has a shot, some people struggle to understand or accept rejection. Again, the most important thing is that you've communicated your feelings and your boundary clearly. If he doesn't respect that, it's a problem he needs to deal with, not you.

Finally, it's worth noting that everyone's feelings and emotions are valid, and we should generally strive to treat one another with respect and kindness. This includes not using derogatory terms to describe others based on their physical appearance. We all have different preferences and standards of beauty, and what one person finds unattractive, another might find beautiful. It's crucial to promote a culture of respect, tolerance, and acceptance.

Remember, your feelings and safety are paramount, and you have every right to stand up for yourself in uncomfortable or inappropriate situations.

[provokeesmokee]

Obsessive male coworkers are the worst.

Had one once corner me as I was getting coffee and he would not shut up about JoJo anime.

Literally took two male peers to "corner" him back and talk about JoJo for me to escape. I thanked them later, lol.

Some folks are just really shit at social cues and understanding others.

[Nikki1989]

He sounds like a creep and what makes it worse is he is a coworker.

[danilocandell]

Maybe he was looking at you in the rest area because he's obsessed with you

[Uglybasterff]

He was very obsessive but that’s just his personality I don’t think it’s about me at all

[SnowedIn]

Is this different than the dorky guy in your other question?

[spartan55]

So, he's not allowed to look at you?

[exitseven]

He is still trying to picture you naked.

[In_Trance]

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