Why did a male coworker hold the door open for me if he doesn’t like me? Months ago, he actually hit on me by the way?

[Toifiebe]

[spartan55]

Okay, just because somene holds the door open for you doesn't necessarily mean they like you. It's a simple act of kindness and courtesy. How are you 32 years old and not know this?

[ClassicDropout]

I'll hold the door open for anyone. It's just how I was raised. It don't necessarily mean I want to start a family with you.

[Toifiebe]

He complimented me months ago

[Nikki1989]

He might actually have some manners. Yes, they still exist.

[sirderpsalot123]

I hold the door open for everyone.

[Toifiebe]

Do you hit on everyone thoguh

[sirderpsalot123]

No .

[Toifiebe]

Great so why would a man hit on me and then hold the door so graciously

[sirderpsalot123]

If he's really hitting on you, and you aren't making things up in your head, it's safe to assume he likes you. I don't understand the first part of your question.

[Toifiebe]

He said my new hair would get him in trouble. I no longer wear my hair that way though.

[sirderpsalot123]

Ok. Are you just telling us about a coworker who hit on you? What is your question?

[sirderpsalot123]

He likes you either romantically or sexually. That's usually why people hit on other people.

[Toifiebe]

Ok. So why hasn’t he pursued me?

[sirderpsalot123]

Doesn't want to get involved with a coworker maybe.

[Toifiebe]

Okay thanks

[sirderpsalot123]

No problem

[Iron_Man]

Who says he doesn’t like you

[Toifiebe]

I’m just wondering if it’s. Sign he might

[Iron_Man]

Talk to him

[Toifiebe]

How? We are different department

[Iron_Man]

Well, you see him right? How else are you gonna have a crush on him?

[Iron_Man]

On your lunch break walk over to his department

[Toifiebe]

he's hidden away for his lunch break. He isn’t accessible.

[Iron_Man]

Then there’s no reason talking about it. You will never talk to this man and you’ll never see him again. Find a man that’s in your area not in another workstation that you’ll never be able to talk to him. I think that you’re just too shy.

[Iron_Man]

Girls like you they all said the same thing make excuses and nothing ever happens

[Toifiebe]

We know each other for years just never got close due to different department. We usually say hi. Sometimes playful or small talk in passing or occasionally.

[Iron_Man]

Forget about it move on find another guy

[Iron_Man]

He obviously would’ve contacted you it’s been years later and nothing.

[Toifiebe]

Ok. But he hit in me a few months ago. That was years into knowing me.

[Iron_Man]

Months ago was months ago. He’s done nothing after let it go. I’m telling you I hear the stories every day on gag and nothing ever comes of it it’s just a pipe Dream

[Toifiebe]

Damn well the fact he’s so gracious and opened the door for me is making me wonder. Why did he hit on me if he wasn’t going to make the dream a reality? I don’t understand how men think

[Iron_Man]

Why are you doing this to yourself? Find a guy that’s gonna take you out and buy you a nice fancy steak dinner a candlelight dinner. Don’t dream the impossible dream on some clown that is a shy puppy that will never ask the girl out

[Toifiebe]

When you put it that way, yeah! Thanks. Do you ask a woman out if you like her?

[Iron_Man]

When I was younger, I did have lots of a lot of opportunities I lost out I was shy but these are at restaurants where they’re coming and going. Or strangers just walking by. I usually like to look for a signal and interest then I would do it

[Toifiebe]

I see. What if you knew the girl liek an acquaintance?

[Iron_Man]

I will ask her out

[Toifiebe]

Cool! I’m glad guys are still asking us women out

[Iron_Man]

Thanks 😊 👍

[Toifiebe]

You’re welcome !

[Iron_Man]

😊…..

[spartan55]

@Toifiebe
Complimenting you on your hair is not hitting on you.

[Abbycado]

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