So iam dating a guy from another country for 7 months now. We are doing long distance. He is 2 years older than me, is in uni now. We talk through text. Before He talks to me when he gets free time from his studies, but now he barely text me or reply my messages. Its been more than 5 days now that he text me. Before that he told me that he will be busy due to his assignments and projects, but it was 1month ago. I have this feeling that he is ignoring me and avoiding me. And he has never call me, like we both exchange number but he says that untill we meet in real life no phone calls , video calls no thing. he also. says we have to keep private our relationships irl but can be public in internet. He doesn't even wanna talk in whats app, says he is not comfortable so iam not forcing him to. when I asked him one day if he loves me in real., he said that I can't believe u are questioning me, haven't i made time for u in my break ti me?, here iam loaded with lots of assignments and projects and u are contributing to my fatigue now, u have to be patient with me , u know I dont text anyone during this time. So I understand and didn't bother him after that. So my questions are -
1) why he doesn't wanna ft or call me?( I ask him but he only says that he doesn't wanna , so I didn't bother him)
2) does he really love me or he is just doing it for fun?
3) is he really busy or its just an excuse?
4) what does he mean about private of relationship? .
Pls tell me , thank u πβ¨