Does he not actually like me?

[Anonymous]

My friend is friends with this guy who she says likes me. According from her she thinks he likes me because he is constantly bringing me up to her and talking about my butt. I’ve talked to him a few times but he talks to me in a friend zone way. He’s even called me his little sister.

[Anonymous]

He could still like you. ﾠ

[Anonymous]

Here are the key things I notice from your description:

• He refers to you as his "little sister" and speaks to you in a "friend zone" way. This indicates he does not see you in a romantic or sexual way.

• Despite talking about your butt to his friend, he has not actually flirted with you or shown any romantic interest directly to you.

• His conversations with his friend do not necessarily reflect his actual feelings or intentions towards you. People often exaggerate or joke around with their friends.

• Discussing someone's physical attributes is not the same as being interested in them as a whole person. Physical attraction alone is often not enough for a genuine connection.

• Friendly conversations and calling you "little sister" suggest he enjoys your companionship but does not have romantic feelings for you.

Based on these factors, it does seem like this guy only sees you as a friend. Talking about your body to his friend does not necessarily mean he actually likes you in a romantic sense. His behavior towards you suggests he thinks of you more platonically.

The best approach going forward would be to avoid reading too much into his conversations with others and focus instead on how he actually interacts with you. His friendly, non-romantic demeanor indicates he just wants to be your friend for now.

If you want more clarity, you could consider asking him directly. But I would not get my hopes up based on what you've described so far. Hopefully this provides some helpful perspective. Let me k

are the key things I notice from your description:

• He refers to you as his "little sister" and speaks to you in a "friend zone" way. This indicates he does not see you in a romantic or sexual way.

• Despite talking about your butt to his friend, he has not actually flirted with you or shown any romantic interest directly to you.

• His conversations with his friend do not necessarily reflect his actual feelings or intentions towards you. People often exaggerate or joke around with their friends.

• Discussing someone's physical attributes is not the same as being interested in them as a whole person. Physical attraction alone is often not enough for a genuine connection.

• Friendly conversations and calling you "little sister" suggest he enjoys your companionship but does not have romantic feelings for you.

Based on these factors, it does seem like this guy only sees you as a friend. Talking about your body to his friend does not necessarily mean he actually likes you in a romantic sense. His behavior towards you suggests he thinks of you more platonically.

The best approach going forward would be to avoid reading too much into his conversations with others and focus instead on how he actually interacts with you. His friendly, non-romantic demeanor indicates he just wants to be your friend for now.

If you want more clarity, you could consider asking him directly. But I would not get my hopes up based on what you've described so far. Hopefully this provides some helpful perspective. Let me k

are the key things I notice from your description:

• He refers to you as his "little sister" and speaks to you in a "friend zone" way. This indicates he does not see you in a romantic or sexual way.

• Despite talking about your butt to his friend, he has not actually flirted with you or shown any romantic interest directly to you.

• His conversations with his friend do not necessarily reflect his actual feelings or intentions towards you. People often exaggerate or joke around with their friends.

• Discussing someone's physical attributes is not the same as being interested in them as a whole person. Physical attraction alone is often not enough for a genuine connection.

• Friendly conversations and calling you "little sister" suggest he enjoys your companionship but does not have romantic feelings for you.

Based on these factors, it does seem like this guy only sees you as a friend. Talking about your body to his friend does not necessarily mean he actually likes you in a romantic sense. His behavior towards you suggests he thinks of you more platonically.

The best approach going forward would be to avoid reading too much into his conversations with others and focus instead on how he actually interacts with you. His friendly, non-romantic demeanor indicates he just wants to be your friend for now.

If you want more clarity, you could consider asking him directly. But I would not get my hopes up based on what you've described so far. Hopefully this provides some helpful perspective.

[Anonymous]

Gross, I wouldn’t even care. To call you his little sister then talk about checking out your ass feels so pervy and red flaggish to me. No thanks.

[spartan55]

I second this. Calling anyone sister/brother if you aren't related to them is messed up.

[Oliverlogan263]

Here are the key things I notice from your description:

• He refers to you as his "little sister" and speaks to you in a "friend zone" way. This indicates he does not see you in a romantic or sexual way.

• Despite talking about your butt to his friend, he has not actually flirted with you or shown any romantic interest directly to you.

• His conversations with his friend do not necessarily reflect his actual feelings or intentions towards you. People often exaggerate or joke around with their friends.

• Discussing someone's physical attributes is not the same as being interested in them as a whole person. Physical attraction alone is often not enough for a genuine connection.

• Friendly conversations and calling you "little sister" suggest he enjoys your companionship but does not have romantic feelings for you.

Based on these factors, it does seem like this guy only sees you as a friend. Talking about your body to his friend does not necessarily mean he actually likes you in a romantic sense. His behavior towards you suggests he thinks of you more platonically.

The best approach going forward would be to avoid reading too much into his conversations with others and focus instead on how he actually interacts with you. His friendly, non-romantic demeanor indicates he just wants to be your friend for now.

If you want more clarity, you could consider asking him directly. But I would not get my hopes up based on what you've described so far. Hopefully this provides some helpful perspective. Let me know if you have any other questions.

[Anonymous]

Sounds as though he isn’t interested in you. Especially if he calls you his little sister. Even if he is, if that’s true him calling you his little sister that’s weird that he talks to your friend about your ass when he thinks of you in that way. I’m not so sure I’d want to get involved w him.

[spartan55]

Do you like him?