So i've been dating this guy for a while and i feel like i'm the only one in the relationship with actual feelings and he's just here for whatever sexual benefit he can get out of it ir when its convenient fir him. Like he seriously has me second guessing everything. He says something completely different from what he does like for example, One day i asked If he could stop playing his keyboard cause he won't be able to hear anything i'm saying and he continued playing, i annouced i was leaving he lets me leave and then like an hour later apologized saying that i was being a smart alec and that i really thought he'd stop playing if i walked out, like i was asking his opinion on something after he asked my opinion on a peice he played i said it was okay and nothing was wrong with it and then he kept playing after i gave my critic but wouldn't listen when i asked for his feedback bet if he knew it was lingre if he actually fucking looked up to look on my phone screen he'd pay attention. Like wtf is up with that. Does he like me or not cause i have other options i just decided to go with this one. WTF is ur guys thought process? Like tf , is he purposely trying to make me mad? Then he asked what i wanted to show him and i said nevermind and he said okay it must of never been important in the first place, I just feel like i'd be better off alone or wuth someone else and its not his first time doing it, I asked him to get off vr he was on it all day, i even said please 5 times for him to pay attention. I keep telling myself i can't pull of the orange jumpsuit to hold myself back. I'll just pretend i forgot his birthday which is next Friday which was what the whole thing was for. God its making me so mad and giving me a headache. We're together ur attention usnt something i have to ask for or seduce u to get.
Does he really even actually like me?
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Bringing up breaking up seemed to work. He's doing better now. So i'll see how it plays out for now, a probation period.
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