If he reads sex novels he might have imagined make love to you at some point.
The fact he wants to remain a virgin until marriage is a good thing though.
I think you should agree on dating him first, and when you know him more and trust him THEN you can feel confident on having a picnic with him on the beach.
All of what he says sounds super sweet you know, you're a lucky girl he likes you that much... do you love him back? Because it doesn't sounds like you are in a relationship yet... First things first, agree to date him if you like him and then see how things are going.
And remember that if you want to remain virgin until marriage, your boyfriend has to respect your decision. It will be all fine ; ).
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He genuinely likes you.
If he just wanted sex out of you, everything would be about sex. You two wouldn't be able to maintain a regular conversation without it being mentioned.
Not only that, he wouldn't take you out on dates, he wouldn't introduce you to his family/friends,
he'd just pretty much want to know when will you two be able to be intimate.
I know its scary, the thought of someone using you.
But trust me, with the information you have provided that isn't the case.
sigh...this is why guys can't win with women. No matter how nice we are to you, you assume we just want sex. If I told you I wanted to treat you like sh*t, make fun of you, and ignore you, would that make you think that I wanted to date you and love you? Just seems to contradictory and cynical to me. Do you see how your logic presents a lose-lose situation for any guy?
Guys who are just after sex tend to try avoiding her family. They also don't do most of that smarmy romantic stuff, just enough to get her to agree to sex.
Simply go along with it, if he pressures you for sex later on, then he's shown his true intents.
Keep in mind though any healthy male will desire sex, just make sure that's not all he wants.
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he wants you to be his girlfriend
Sweetie, he has a penis. He wants sex.
He's 18. He wants sex.
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