I think if it was a guy friend of yours who you've known for a while (just friends) than it probably wouldn't be a date. If you and this guy don't know each other well then going to the beach probably would be considered a date. There's the chance he's just getting to know you. When I was younger I went out with this girl I worked with, we out to eat and then spent sometime on this walkway by the water. It turned out that what I perceived to be a date was not the case and was in fact just two people getting together, spending time with oneanother and getting to know each other.
I learned men should not assume that because they're going out with a woman or spending time together that It's necessarily is. I would say that going to the beach with someone, the ball is in the women's court. I say that because more often than not only women can decide if they're comfortable calling that time together a dare. If it is or is not a date it may be better for each to consult oneanother and affirm what there time is or is nor, date or no dare, friends, maybe headed towards dating, but have not arrived at that position yet.
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He has his arm around you, if it wasn't a date then he wouldn't be doing that.
My definition of a date is if you plan on eating together. But plan on it , not just end up cuz it happened to be lunch or dinner time. That may just be me but it helps to have a rule that you can really tell 1 from the other. Many people prolly have a different rule they go by though.
For example. if they asked to go to the beach then go eat somewhere after I probably would consider that A date.
Judging by my rule anyways.
If a guy asked me to go to be beach with him that would totally be a date..
but I wouldn’t go if I’m not into him duhh
Cause I’d probably be annoyed or have a bad times
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Best person to ask would be him, unfortunately a trend right now is inviting someone to "hang out" and wanting it to be a date, but not saying so definitively so if there is no interest they can claim deniability that it was a date at all to try and save face.
If you want to know if it's a date, ask him if it's a date.it doesn't matter if hangout out with friends or girl or boy. It consider a date. I went out to the beach my previous girlfriend and with my little brother and his girlfriend. I did something funny to my girlfriend while she was trying to some sun on the beach. Remember what Terry Crews did in the movie White Chicks? I stand in front of my girlfriend say: "Easy Dark Chocolate, don't want you to melt."
She burst out laughing.I'm a believer that a formal dinner is a real romantic date but we could hang out initially or thereafter. The thing about it that woman seem to fail to grasp is that if a guy spends any kind of time around you he's probably interested on some level. So we can just chill n play it cool or even just be friends if you're not into it but don't ever think a guy doesn't want to make a pass on you or have it lead to a date, we all want that!
This is photoshopped, first someone already mentioned the hand, the shadow for the arm on the left side of the image isn't acting up and let's not mention the group of men in the background that are photoshopped, not only does it look photoshopped but I don't see any logic to why they are posing but using your camera to take the picture, they are so far as well, your photoshopping needs work but nice try I guess lol
Not really.
But if you are going for drinks and sex later, then maybe it's a date.
There is a fine line between "just going out" and "a date". The latter has an expectation behind it.Confirm if it's a date or not by asking. Like anything else, it may or may not be, but it's safe to assume it is or that the other person thinks it is. Unless you're friends first or know each other fairly well.
Personally would consider it a date, going to the beach is more of a group of friends thing, unless it 1-1 which it is so? Also if you're not close friends i would consider it a date!
I think it depends on what you do at the beach. I go with many guys to the lake but it is not dates because we just hang out. I only consider it a date if I am with my boyfriend.
Open sex relationships are not science fiction like star wars. Not saying this is one but just saying, not all relationships are so dead serous time spent only with each other or only friends of the same gender.
Let all couples decide for themselves where the boundaries go. I met a girl ones who was avarage looking but was allowed to sleep naked with her male friend... Not experiancing that but just witnessing it, turns me on still after nearly 2 decades.Most certainly!
Yes, I've been on a few. Usually a date would include specific plans and he would mention it. Hanging out is mostly for friends I would assume.
Not if he bring all his friends with him. See in the back ground.. you get photo bom in all your picture
im so confused, why do you photoshop guys into the backround of all your pictures? and why did you photoshop the guys hand under your boob, if you look close its obviously fake.
Yes, if he asked you to go then if it's not a close friend I would consider it a date
probably i would see it as a date if it was just the two of you
Flipping the genders, no and no I would go the beach isn't my scene
When i met my future wife our first date was a walk along the shoreline.
The problem with "just friends" is that it implies guys and girls can be "just friends". But what does that mean when they actually "go out" together
I would consider it hanging out but it could also be a date.
If it's just u two good chance u thinking it's a date
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