If a guy asked you to go to the beach with him, would you consider that a date?

[InYourHead]

I've never had a good grasp on what quatifies that you're on a date or just hanging out together.

[VinnyMac]

I think if it was a guy friend of yours who you've known for a while (just friends) than it probably wouldn't be a date. If you and this guy don't know each other well then going to the beach probably would be considered a date. There's the chance he's just getting to know you. When I was younger I went out with this girl I worked with, we out to eat and then spent sometime on this walkway by the water. It turned out that what I perceived to be a date was not the case and was in fact just two people getting together, spending time with oneanother and getting to know each other.
I learned men should not assume that because they're going out with a woman or spending time together that It's necessarily is. I would say that going to the beach with someone, the ball is in the women's court. I say that because more often than not only women can decide if they're comfortable calling that time together a dare. If it is or is not a date it may be better for each to consult oneanother and affirm what there time is or is nor, date or no dare, friends, maybe headed towards dating, but have not arrived at that position yet.

[Yourfriend2021]

He has his arm around you, if it wasn't a date then he wouldn't be doing that.

[idkwhatsreal]

My definition of a date is if you plan on eating together. But plan on it , not just end up cuz it happened to be lunch or dinner time. That may just be me but it helps to have a rule that you can really tell 1 from the other. Many people prolly have a different rule they go by though.


For example. if they asked to go to the beach then go eat somewhere after I probably would consider that A date.

Judging by my rule anyways.

[Anonymous]

If a guy asked me to go to be beach with him that would totally be a date..
but I wouldn’t go if I’m not into him duhh
Cause I’d probably be annoyed or have a bad times

[Phoenix-gb]

Best person to ask would be him, unfortunately a trend right now is inviting someone to "hang out" and wanting it to be a date, but not saying so definitively so if there is no interest they can claim deniability that it was a date at all to try and save face.

If you want to know if it's a date, ask him if it's a date.

[CuriousJC]

it doesn't matter if hangout out with friends or girl or boy. It consider a date. I went out to the beach my previous girlfriend and with my little brother and his girlfriend. I did something funny to my girlfriend while she was trying to some sun on the beach. Remember what Terry Crews did in the movie White Chicks? I stand in front of my girlfriend say: "Easy Dark Chocolate, don't want you to melt."
She burst out laughing.

[RawIronhide]

I'm a believer that a formal dinner is a real romantic date but we could hang out initially or thereafter. The thing about it that woman seem to fail to grasp is that if a guy spends any kind of time around you he's probably interested on some level. So we can just chill n play it cool or even just be friends if you're not into it but don't ever think a guy doesn't want to make a pass on you or have it lead to a date, we all want that!

[TheMajesticKing777]

This is photoshopped, first someone already mentioned the hand, the shadow for the arm on the left side of the image isn't acting up and let's not mention the group of men in the background that are photoshopped, not only does it look photoshopped but I don't see any logic to why they are posing but using your camera to take the picture, they are so far as well, your photoshopping needs work but nice try I guess lol

[jshm2]

Not really.

But if you are going for drinks and sex later, then maybe it's a date.

There is a fine line between "just going out" and "a date". The latter has an expectation behind it.

[GingerGuy]

Confirm if it's a date or not by asking. Like anything else, it may or may not be, but it's safe to assume it is or that the other person thinks it is. Unless you're friends first or know each other fairly well.

[skyeee01]

Personally would consider it a date, going to the beach is more of a group of friends thing, unless it 1-1 which it is so? Also if you're not close friends i would consider it a date!

[Ylva-ungjente]

I think it depends on what you do at the beach. I go with many guys to the lake but it is not dates because we just hang out. I only consider it a date if I am with my boyfriend.

[Djaay]

But if your with your already boyfriend , how is that a date?

[laurieluvsit]

Most certainly!

[Neilbud]

Nice beach. Where is that?

[Luopio27]

Open sex relationships are not science fiction like star wars. Not saying this is one but just saying, not all relationships are so dead serous time spent only with each other or only friends of the same gender.


Let all couples decide for themselves where the boundaries go. I met a girl ones who was avarage looking but was allowed to sleep naked with her male friend... Not experiancing that but just witnessing it, turns me on still after nearly 2 decades.

[Siren777]

Yes, I've been on a few. Usually a date would include specific plans and he would mention it. Hanging out is mostly for friends I would assume.

[ohshee]

Not if he bring all his friends with him. See in the back ground.. you get photo bom in all your picture

[allielynn]

im so confused, why do you photoshop guys into the backround of all your pictures? and why did you photoshop the guys hand under your boob, if you look close its obviously fake.

[joeee124647]

It’s his pervaded dream to be with someone this young that’s why.

[20yearsolder]

Yes, if he asked you to go then if it's not a close friend I would consider it a date

[wankiam]

probably i would see it as a date if it was just the two of you

[exitseven]

When i met my future wife our first date was a walk along the shoreline.

[jamesgoldman]

Flipping the genders, no and no I would go the beach isn't my scene

[jamesgoldman]

Wouldn't

[SignedAutographs]

The problem with "just friends" is that it implies guys and girls can be "just friends". But what does that mean when they actually "go out" together

[larry69]

I would consider it hanging out but it could also be a date.

[Mysteryman9854]

If it's just u two good chance u thinking it's a date

[DatGuy_Shawnaay]

Why not? A date isn't defined by sitting in a café or restaurant. It can be anything as long as the date itself is of mutual interest. If you're uncertain, ask him. It might be weird but at least it's clarity.

[Sirenboobzilla]

If it's with the intention of a date, yes. It's a plus for me cause I love the beach

[spartan55]

It's a date if you wear a bikini. If you wear a one piece it's on the friendship tip.

[AbruvAvgMatt]

Unless it's specified as one, no. I live by the beach so it would just be a common occurrence to me.

[B4852]

Usually just hanging out, but could count as a date.

[vduong1988]

I would but no if I know the guy first it’s kinda dangerous I don’t want to get raped with creepy guy it’s scary meet guys at the beach

[Sanjivraj]

He just wants to see u in a bikini. And see how shameless you are

[genericname85]

in my book, it's not a date, unless you call it a date.

[JSmuve]

Depends on his intentions, I guess. But that's a nice beach. Where's it at? Looks pretty chill.

[Djaay]

A shcedulized intent of interpersonal relations is what a date becomes with the agreement from the other.

[IncognitoBandito]

I'd consider that him wanting to check out your body

[Waldoe]

better question... Why do you feel the need to "label" everything?

[DangItBobby]

Depends on the relationship but if there’s even a hint of liking each other, for sure it’s a date

[MJtheCoach]

It looks like he’s dating a prostitute I mean that photo

[Arandogal]

Why do you say so?

[MJtheCoach]

With life experience, things in life becomes clear. Same reasons why girls know what type of girls each other are.

[audreys]

Stop trying to normalise age gap relationships old men are gross. Why would you want to FLUCK someone who looks like your child? Perverts.

[Djaay]

You calling yourself immature and looks like a toddler with a stupid mentality attatched to it?

[Bklynbadboy12]

Anytime a guy ask you out its a date unless its your platonic friend

[dolemite89]

if a guy wants to hang out with u at all u should consider that a date

[Gwenhwyfar]

That’s a date if it’s just you two

[joeee124647]

Not if he is that old. If he is Uber 30 then yes. Old men are gross.

[Djaay]

Just like your going to be in 6 years. Sigle and gross.

[audreys]

HA you wish you were 24 again. That’s why you stay obsessing over women 18-25. That’s why this poster is clearly a man with an agenda to normalise this kind of relationship. Because no one wants an old man. Ew.

Pervert who wants to date a girl that looks like his daughter borderline pedophilia.

[audreys]

You like women that could be your children calling us “adults” yet next to you we look like kids. Old men are gross they need to go to war and get shot

[Djaay]

Thats why im married to a 24 year old you mean and have 2 more children from her.

[Djaay]

Women your age who talk as you do dont deserve a deservant husband or children really. a lot of women now are taking mens place in the military fighting , how come your not in a war getting shot yourself?

[winterdream733]

It’s the fact that this poster keeps blocking me. First of all we all know the types of women 18-28 year olds you saggy balled men get are not wanted by men their own age. You get the young women who cannot compete for men her own age. Meaning she’s butter face and a loser.

Second of all women like me? You mean women who don’t fall for mens bullshit? So 30 is old to you yet your geriatric hands is on a 24 year old woman who I’m 💯 sure looks like your daughter?

Why am I not getting drafted let’s see I’m a size 0 5’4 small dainty hands and feet and not built for war but your old ass is.

Oh wait no your too much a coward to go to war and would rather send an 18-25 year old man to get killed while your dirty hands is all over his counterpart. Why did my comment to you so badly anyways I’m young your old so of course I’m not gonna find you attractive MAJORITY of young women do not like you statistic proves this lol cry.

[winterdream733]

And I know this poster is kicking me because he knows I’m right and is scared to be challenge look at you spreading an agenda trying to normalise something that isn’t normal ew.

[winterdream733]

Poster is blocking*

[Djaay]

audreys and winterdream... Both of you are the most intrinsically immature annons who are shellshocked of reality and chooses to "ew" everything. White culture im assuming !

[winterdream733]

I’m not white. Reality? Your the one who doesn’t want to face reality about your age hence why you think being with someone 24 makes you 24 lool. And how is it not ew and perverted to have sex with someone you looks like your daughter next to you?

[winterdream733]

Men really believe feeling 18-24 makes them that age yeah ew. With all the crap you spew about us when it comes to ageing women especially older women are not telling you the truth enough.

I’ll tell you tho. What your doing is disgusting and perverted.

[baldsubhuman]

Lol why are you women this salty. Let adults date whoever they want. We will all grow old and die anyway. You don't see me go out of my way to make older ladies feel bad about themselves. Why spread hatered and negativity. If you're not attracted to older men that's fine but wishing death upon them shows a lot about your morals.

[winterdream733]

Lol bro shut your dumbass up. Left right centre up and down. Men for years have been making older ladies feel bad. Where are you men coming to defence? But as soon as one of you are touched that’s when you show up to talk about “letting adults date”

Those two adults are not the same one is young and finding life another has way more advantage and clearly looks like their dads. You want to sit here shame older women get you literally have sex with someone that looks like your child yet you want to talk about people being old fuck off.

You men have the nerves. You talk about your 30+ years being your prime but as soon as it’s time for war your too old and don’t have avoiding or strength wtf? I can’t believe women allow you to get away with shit

[winterdream733]

Why would I be salty? I’m disgusted more like. Pervert. 40 will never be the same as 24. Doesn’t matter how legal or adultish it is.

[winterdream733]

Your too old and don’t have agility and strength*

[baldsubhuman]

I don't know who hurt you but I don't judge people based on gender. My evaluation comes from character and soul. Some older ladies are attractive if they take care of themselves and so can some men if they manage to stay in shape and keep their hair. I never make women feel bad about themselves that's not very common where I'm from.

[Djaay]

winterdream... Listen... Fuck you and what am i doing that affects You f wad? You throw pervert around like its true ir something... The woman is fuckin old enough and smart enough to do as she wishes. And furthermore thats nonyofuckin buisness what she's doing with me... u stupid ass. Learn to stay TF out of others buisness before you get invited to the buisness end of mine.

[winterdream733]

Baldhuman shut the hell up because if there was a post about older ladies you will not be here with a cape to defend anybody. I’m not hurt I’m showing you ur hypocrisy.

[winterdream733]

Djaay. I simply made a comment as a young woman that yes I would go on a date just not with someone that old that’s how majority of us young people think. Your the one who came into my business telling me I have 6 years till “nobody” wants me which by the way I rebuke in Jesus name. Second of all your not self aware because if you think I’m old in 6 years then wtf are you because in 6 years you’ll look like my great great grand pa yet you have the cheek to talk about my age.

[baldsubhuman]

You literally don't know me lol. I absolutely would. How do you know I wouldn't? You're projecting your own moral values unto me. Which means you would defend women and not men.

[winterdream733]

Like ew. You have the nerves. I never told you how to live your life but don’t throw stones when you live in glass houses.

[winterdream733]

Lmao baldhuman stfu.

[baldsubhuman]

I didn't expect much more from this conversation. Have a good day.

[winterdream733]

Yeah I don’t argue with hypocrites bye.

[baldsubhuman]

Very ironic.

[Djaay]

winterdream733... I was responding to " joeee123647" not your ass. So get your uninvited ass correct.

[annabananna]

It depends but more than likely it’s a date.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I would go if a girl asked me to a beach

[Gingerguy33]

That’s a date in my opinion

[Likes2drive]

I would think so if it’s just the two of you

[Boosss]

Depending on the way he asked me, and with who

[steveRogers12]

Looks like a date pic to me

[clemdenim]

do with the flo, see what happens

[Immanuel_thefirst]

It depends
Did you two agree that it was a date

[Kitty_V]

Yes I would but not if it was a group thing

[pizzalovershouse]

Can be if he said it's a date

[boobliker]

in most cases yes I would.

[888theGreat]

out with your dad again

[Iron_Man]

That’s a beach date

[femaleswimwear]

His hand looks so photo shopped

[mpodeszek]

Yes its a communication socially

[Abdulwahh]

I see you like older guys looks good nice

[notwoke]

great looking couple

[eagle1951]

yes and no

[Guido]

Most likely a date.

[Indiepop123]

Yes ofcourse

[CubaPirate]

Of course