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I’m only turned off bc I saw him as husband material.. and he’s handsome and has a lot of great qualities.
I noticed that before he was leaving he glanced back but I don't know if he was looking at me or my butt
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I feel a bit turned off, to be honest, but only because I saw him as husband material and he's handsome and has a lot of great qualities. It's like finding out that your dream date is a total boob maniac, but instead of being intimidated, you're just kind of like, "Eh, whatever."
In conclusion, @Boobslayer's boob obsession is not only fucking creative, but it's also kind of fucking hilarious and pornographic. So next time you see a boob, take a moment to appreciate its beauty and let out a sigh of unholy horror. And who knows, maybe you'll start feeling a bit more turned on than you were before. ﾠ
would you rather have noticed him looking at someone else's butt?
He's a guy, that's what we do, look a female's boobs, butts, legs all of that gets at least a once over.
So, like it or not he looked at you, and if it was your butt it was because you were walking away, unless you me face to face and he scooted behind you to look at your butt.
that would be just odd.
Why do you think guys wear mirrored sunglasses so much?
it's so you can't tell what or who we are looking at unless he turns his head so fast you can hear his neck snap.
You know what. No. Because he’s possibly not a man I can trust… he’s a man and I get it. But I feel like I will never be enough for him …. He’ll always be finding the next better thing… I feel like he’s a man with many options. I still think he’s a good man who wants a wife and he wants a baby.. but he has a lot of options… and tbh I think he’s more attracted to my mom who is way prettier than me. My mom knew I liked him a lot but she would brag about how he gave her nice tight hugs.
I just don’t feel like he’s attracted to me in a way that I can keep his attention
Don't sell yourself short.
Just because you think one thing doesn't mean that is what he is thinking.
It might just be presumptuous to think that way.
Get together for lunch, meet in a park and actually talk, not text each other.
Ask him what he sees in you, what his goals are, all of that stuff, then you can make a decision, not now because you seem full of self doubts about yourself.
For all you know he might be figuring out how often your grandkids will be coming over.
Don't be so quick to judge someone without talking to him.
Grandkids?
He had liked my moms boyfriend daughter since they were young but she moved away and wasn’t interested at the time. She’s stupid not to like him back. I just don’t want to be with a man who has options… esp. when I’m barely a option to him. I don’t see him often but I hear he brings some women to church. I just don’t want to feel this way. Like I know I’m not who he really wants. I’m not his dream girl.
But I do plan on getting work done to myself and I’ll just leave the idea of marriage and boyfriends behind.
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Do you think a guy would consider you as potential girlfriend or wife material if he isn't physically attracted to you?
You said you think he is handsome. Isn't he supposed to think you are beautiful?
I don't understand why you are upset. But if you don't think of sex or if you are turned off by the idea, you are going to really suck as a romantic partner.
You know what. No. Because he’s possibly not a man I can trust… he’s a man and I get it. But I feel like I will never be enough for him …. He’ll always be finding the next better thing… I feel like he’s a man with many options. I still think he’s a good man who wants a wife and he wants a baby.. but he has a lot of options… and tbh I think he’s more attracted to my mom who is way prettier than me. My mom knew I liked him a lot but she would brag about how he gave her nice tight hugs.
I just don’t feel like he’s attracted to me in a way that I can keep his attention
is your butt a separate entity?
if you were to date him, would you plan on having sex with him at some point?
assuming your answers were no to the 1st question and yes to the 2nd question, why shoukd it matter if he did look at your butt? does he not have the implied right to assess if he finds (all of) you attractive too? or is your thinking that only you being attracted matters?
sounds more like you are insecure about your body. i advise you to work on that.
It’s just that it makes me feel like I’m not pretty. Like it’s just my body idk…..
You know what. No. Because he’s possibly not a man I can trust… he’s a man and I get it. But I feel like I will never be enough for him …. He’ll always be finding the next better thing… I feel like he’s a man with many options. I still think he’s a good man who wants a wife and he wants a baby.. but he has a lot of options… and tbh I think he’s more attracted to my mom who is way prettier than me. My mom knew I liked him a lot but she would brag about how he gave her nice tight hugs.
I just don’t feel like he’s attracted to me in a way that I can keep his attention
Lol well you might as well get used to being single for the rest of your life. Men check women out that’s what we do. That’s what usually brings us to you, to want to get to know you more. Your looks. You said he’s had someone, which means you checked him out as well but you’re mad that he checked you out lol would you rather him check out some other girl?
You know what. No. Because he’s possibly not a man I can trust… he’s a man and I get it. But I feel like I will never be enough for him …. He’ll always be finding the next better thing… I feel like he’s a man with many options. I still think he’s a good man who wants a wife and he wants a baby.. but he has a lot of options… and tbh I think he’s more attracted to my mom who is way prettier than me. My mom knew I liked him a lot but she would brag about how he gave her nice tight hugs.
I just don’t feel like he’s attracted to me in a way that I can keep his attention
So are you planning on pursuing this? You never know. It could work out. Maybe he does like you.
But I’m sure he likes his other options more
If you’re sure about that why are you making this such a big deal? Move on. Men will always check you out, that’s part of what we look at overall when it comes to deciding who we’d like to get to know more.
It’s not about that I just feel like he has options and I’m not his dream girl
So then just move on. Why did you get mad when you felt that he looked at your ass?
Well I don't know for sure if it was my butt or face but I think it would feel more genuine if he looked at my face
But physically speaking he needs to be sexually attracted to you as well. You won’t understand this because you’re not a man. He’s not the only one like that, pretty much all women are.
True, but I’m being treated like any other person he’s sexually attracted to. Not anything special
How?
He barely looks at me or says hi. He’s brought women to church and even dated a older woman there who was possessive of him.
I don’t think he’s like fully attracted to me
Maybe not. Doesn’t mean you don’t have a chance if he likes you some. You just have to show him why you’re better than all the other women.
That’s the thing I’m not. I’m literally not. I cried after church one time bc I prepped an outfit for two days and tried to look my best.. put on some make up and he didn’t even look my way..
I have a history of men choosing other women over me. Almost every guy I’ve liked and talked to.
Ok so an honest answer please. What would you say you are looks wise in a scale of 1-10? Too many women shoot for the top because they have this inflated ego of their looks. Not only that society, especially other women tell women oh girl you’re gorgeous. So when reality hits she’s wondering why aren’t men asking me out when all my friends said I’m a plus, a 10, a catch.
I’m not an 8 9 10…. My mom is an 8
I’m a 5/6 …7 on good days.
I’m not saying he’s all that but he has an accent, he’s nice, plays piano and works out/ disciplined… those qualities make him attractive.
Yeah true, I thought I was attractive bc church people would say it but turns out I’m not. 25 still never had a boyfriend or been on a date.
Have you never been on a date because of strict family values? Rules? Or were you free to date all this time if you let someone?
My dad was a pastor and was strict. My mom sheltered me a bit but no guys really talked to me so no rules came about.
Maybe they didn’t talk to you cause your dad was a pastor. Maybe they were scared too.
But my dad lived in a different state. I honestly didn’t really go out that much anyway
Could you describe yourself? Like what you look like.
So let me get this straight, you're upset with him or turned off by him for being a man? Would you rather have had him not check you out? Or how would have felt had you seen him check out one of your friends, and not you? You need to get over yourself girl. You wouldn't buy a car or a house without checking it out first would you?
You know what. No. Because he’s possibly not a man I can trust… he’s a man and I get it. But I feel like I will never be enough for him …. He’ll always be finding the next better thing… I feel like he’s a man with many options. I still think he’s a good man who wants a wife and he wants a baby.. but he has a lot of options… and tbh I think he’s more attracted to my mom who is way prettier than me. My mom knew I liked him a lot but she would brag about how he gave her nice tight hugs.
I just don’t feel like he’s attracted to me in a way that I can keep his attention
You may be right, however your mother isn't helping at all. It seems that she likes the attention if she continues to bring up him hugging her.
Call me crazy, but its awfully difficult to imagine how anyone could be turned off by having someone looking at their butt.
I’m not turned off … I’m turned off bc we’re not dating…
if he is looking at your butt, he sees you as wife material, what is a big turn off for men is when women try to control natural instincts of a man, yes we usually control our eyes, but not when it comes to healthy fertility for offspring
enjoy it, matter of fact, play with it and watch your world change
You know what. No. Because he’s possibly not a man I can trust… he’s a man and I get it. But I feel like I will never be enough for him …. He’ll always be finding the next better thing… I feel like he’s a man with many options. I still think he’s a good man who wants a wife and he wants a baby.. but he has a lot of options… and tbh I think he’s more attracted to my mom who is way prettier than me. My mom knew I liked him a lot but she would brag about how he gave her nice tight hugs.
I just don’t feel like he’s attracted to me in a way that I can keep his attention
Why would that turn you off? You like the guy and your body entices him. Maybe I'm just "dude braining" right now, but that sounds like a good thing.
You know what. No. Because he’s possibly not a man I can trust… he’s a man and I get it. But I feel like I will never be enough for him …. He’ll always be finding the next better thing… I feel like he’s a man with many options. I still think he’s a good man who wants a wife and he wants a baby.. but he has a lot of options… and tbh I think he’s more attracted to my mom who is way prettier than me. My mom knew I liked him a lot but she would brag about how he gave her nice tight hugs.
I just don’t feel like he’s attracted to me in a way that I can keep his attention
Interesting, okay. I can see why you would have mixed feelings then
You're supposed to be attracted to the person you're dating but I guess we're all supposed to be asexual and act like we're friends with no sexual urges whatsoever? What the hell is this shit?
I hope a husband will like looking at his wife butt, but I understand why it might be a turn off.
Yeah a HUSBAND lol
I don’t have a big butt but I’m tired of guys only seeing me as sex ig… not to assume off of a glance but… whatever. Won’t risk it
Not worth a broken heart
The heart is one of the most valuable things you could risk and man it hurts when it gets broken.
Did you talk to this guy on a regular basis?
Nah I only see him once a year lol at church …
Oh, you're into the choir boys huh, lol. Well, I hate to say it but once a year isn't really enough to know whether he is a good guy or even to spend much time thinking about the possible opportunity cost by not pursuing him.
He plays the piano but he just joined the navy… I just don’t think I’m pretty enough for him face wise. He has so many options. Women come to church just to see him
I think he’s a good guy but like most men they struggle with lust possibly. He follows a couple half naked women on insta
you can be turned off by whatever you like but i'd say its unrealistic to expect every guy you like to not like your butt. men AND women like asses. its just reality lol
so just move on.
You know what. No. Because he’s possibly not a man I can trust… he’s a man and I get it. But I feel like I will never be enough for him …. He’ll always be finding the next better thing… I feel like he’s a man with many options. I still think he’s a good man who wants a wife and he wants a baby.. but he has a lot of options… and tbh I think he’s more attracted to my mom who is way prettier than me. My mom knew I liked him a lot but she would brag about how he gave her nice tight hugs.
I just don’t feel like he’s attracted to me in a way that I can keep his attention
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Have fun
What’s that supposed to mean?
Why would you not be glad that he checked out your glutius maximus?
Bc I feel like if you were interested you wouldn’t do that
Like genuine
But guys are going to check out the ass! It's as genuine as girlies tucking their shirts in ;)
I don't know lol seems like lust
Seems like you're too picky.
You know what. No. Because he’s possibly not a man I can trust… he’s a man and I get it. But I feel like I will never be enough for him …. He’ll always be finding the next better thing… I feel like he’s a man with many options. I still think he’s a good man who wants a wife and he wants a baby.. but he has a lot of options… and tbh I think he’s more attracted to my mom who is way prettier than me. My mom knew I liked him a lot but she would brag about how he gave her nice tight hugs.
I just don’t feel like he’s attracted to me in a way that I can keep his attention
If you saw him glance back at you how could he see your butt?
So you do not want him to be attracted to you?
Not sexually
That is a massive part of dating and marriage. You'll have to find some who is castrated if thats the case.
Honey men love a nice butt
Hum to do it doggy style
Also today women young women wearing practically nothing we look baby
You know what. No. Because he’s possibly not a man I can trust… he’s a man and I get it. But I feel like I will never be enough for him …. He’ll always be finding the next better thing… I feel like he’s a man with many options. I still think he’s a good man who wants a wife and he wants a baby.. but he has a lot of options… and tbh I think he’s more attracted to my mom who is way prettier than me. My mom knew I liked him a lot but she would brag about how he gave her nice tight hugs.
I just don’t feel like he’s attracted to me in a way that I can keep his attention
If you have a really nice butt , guys are going to look at it
Well, he's saved from a sexless relationship, I guess
What is your question?
Is that a bad thing? Should I be turned off
Yeah me and 50 other women… I’m nothing special is what I’m saying or it’s how I feel
I don't know how I should feel about it
He gives my mom tight hugs lol sure I don’t feel bad
You can't be serious or are trolling?
No I’m not…. I don’t want to be seen as a tease
It's hard to say which?
How dare he be attracted to you
Oh come on
You know what. No. Because he’s possibly not a man I can trust… he’s a man and I get it. But I feel like I will never be enough for him …. He’ll always be finding the next better thing… I feel like he’s a man with many options. I still think he’s a good man who wants a wife and he wants a baby.. but he has a lot of options… and tbh I think he’s more attracted to my mom who is way prettier than me. My mom knew I liked him a lot but she would brag about how he gave her nice tight hugs.
I just don’t feel like he’s attracted to me in a way that I can keep his attention
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