If guy never offers to pay for dates does that mean he doesn’t like you?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

It depends. Maybe he doesn’t want to undermine you as a strong, independent woman. He doesn’t want to insult you. A lot of men are being trashed for being men. Now that a lot of men have stopped being men, we’re still getting trashed for it. It’s hard to say.

[Billlewis]

If I were a woman interested in meeting guys for a possible relationship, I wouldn't view any guy who isn't willing to pay for our dates as a viable candidate for a long term relationship.

[Berethor]

It means that he don't like gold diggers, are you dating him for his money? no other reason?

[Asker]

No but he makes me pay

[Asker]

Like either we split it or I pay for him

[Berethor]

You should not pay for him, everyone should be paying for himself.

[Asker]

Well he says it’s because it’s me who wants to go out to eat but when I’ve offered to make my cooking he doesn’t like it (I usually make Korean food but he only likes Mexican food and I’ve tried making it before but he said the spices were wrong and hasn’t been willing to try it again after that one time)

[Wise4myage]

Maybe, but it also means he is a cheap bastard.