So there’s this guy at work who I think there definitely might be some sexual tension with. He’s teased me before and complimented my scent and stuff and I don't know wtf it is but everytime he talks to me there’s this vibe where my voice gets lower and I want to rip his clothes off. I’m not going to do it I just can’t help it. We’re both in relationships and this is why it scares me. He’s like late 20s I believe and I’m almost 22.
Today I was at my desk putting on deodorant and I had to move my shirt which was short sleeved. He accidentally walked in on me and saw me then turned back around but realized he forgot something. When he came back out I was laughing and told him sorry and said I was just putting on deodorant and i didn’t want him to think I was doing something else and I was laughing and he was also really laughing really hard and said it was okay and came closer to me and asked how I was doing.
Also that day he kept coming near me a lot and I felt the weird sexual vibe again when he asked me questions because there was awkward pauses and his eye contact lingered. For example, he made some food for an event ( he works in the kitchen ) and when I was in my area by myself he came over and stood near me and offered me some and I told him thanks and he looked at me for longer again and I felt a weird surge again.
Do you think he was weirdly turned on by the deodorant thing? Why did that make him want to talk to me more lol?
Today I was at my desk putting on deodorant and I had to move my shirt which was short sleeved. He accidentally walked in on me and saw me then turned back around but realized he forgot something. When he came back out I was laughing and told him sorry and said I was just putting on deodorant and i didn’t want him to think I was doing something else and I was laughing and he was also really laughing really hard and said it was okay and came closer to me and asked how I was doing.
Also that day he kept coming near me a lot and I felt the weird sexual vibe again when he asked me questions because there was awkward pauses and his eye contact lingered. For example, he made some food for an event ( he works in the kitchen ) and when I was in my area by myself he came over and stood near me and offered me some and I told him thanks and he looked at me for longer again and I felt a weird surge again.
Do you think he was weirdly turned on by the deodorant thing? Why did that make him want to talk to me more lol?
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Your both in relationships, maybe stay loyal to your respective partners or tell them you're emotionally cheating on them to save them the pain and allow them to move on. They say opposites attract, but both seem to be cheaters here lol.
*you're
How are we cheating?
@asker
Stop acting like we are all stupid.
No one is calling anyone stupid I’m just asking to explain how you think were cheating when we haven’t done anything.
So you wouldn't care if your boyfriend was doing the same thing?
Doing what? Having a conversation? He has conversations with attractive women at his job all the time.
Such bullshit. You are asking if he was turned on... just having a conversation, right?
he's probably using it as an excuse to talk to you
You think he likes me?
@asker
Why would that matter? I thought you were just having an innocent conversation with him? You are gross.
Yep, she's back.