obvs first red flag. He’s in a relationship. Call me cunty but I see myself as a reason why y’all shouldn’t be together (especially when I’m with him & he’s telling me how unhappy he is & etc etc it could be to just fool or comfort me but fuck.)
2nd is when we see each other for the 1st time in a week or 2 he always says he missed me & wants me to admit I missed him too (now if that wasn’t in my head before he sure drove it in there.)
3rd we got a hotel one night. Next night I still had it & I went to a girlfriends place to find out he was messaging her while I was waiting in the room for him. I asked if he was just trying to fuck us both or a 3 sum & he said he wasn’t hoping for anything.
4th We continued talking. Fucking. Etc. One night his girlfriend ex showed up late at night cuz he was in the neighborhood but to his surprise the guy I’m seeing wasn’t actually supposed to be home that night, he was supposed to be at work still. He got mad obvs messaged me & came over to my parents place where I was staying cuz my ex father of my kids had his new girlfriend living at ours & my ex after him kicked me out & we broke up etc. he stayed for 5 nights / 6 days. Waking up together saying how he doesn’t remember the last time he woke up so happy, cuddles, opening upto me about personal very personal stuff. On the 6th day I had to go to my old place to care for my kids because my ex and his woman were out of town. The guy I’m seeing asked if I wanted him to come & I replied “of course I do but I don’t think it’s best to introduce you to my babies so soon, with the whole ____ thing happening, & I know I wouldn’t be able to pretend we were just friends & keep my hands off of him.
As he dropped me off he said he was going to see his mom, go home, grab his stuff & stay at work for the time being & he would call me later. Over a week went by & I got a how was shambs when the festival was over. What do I do? …
