Do Japanese men sexualize foreign women?

[Anonymous]

I’m talking to a japanese guy through text and l’m darkskin. He did ask me to send pictures of my face? Why would he need them? I was wondering how foreign women are perceived there?

[Anonymous]

I’m half Japanese and I can tell you on thing about Japanese men, and that’s that they are like any other man in the world. Maybe he just wanted to see what you look like, though. It’s not weird to ask what someone’s face looks like, hun.

Japanese men tend to be very shy and bashful around foreign women because it’s still not common or even slightly common to see foreigners with Japanese men, white or black but especially black. Unless the man has spent a significant time abroad, 10/10 you’re being fetishized in some way shape or form and I’d proceed with caution.

[Guffrus]

Ever notice how women have preferences and men have fetishes?

[Opinion Owner]

@Guffrus Ever notice how I said nothing about preferences and was referring to racial fetishizing? Be gone, incel.

[Guffrus]

and now I am an incel.

What a fucking piece of shit you are.

[Guffrus]

If you don't like it when people call you out on your retarded bullshit then don't say it in the first place.

[Opinion Owner]

@Guffrus Lol, ok dude.

[Asker]

Thanks so much for your answer. Do Japanese men have stigma against foreign women or what do Japanese men usually fetishized foreign women on.

[Opinion Owner]

I’d just be cautious of the comments they make towards you. It’s not just Japanese men it’s any man from any background that differs from yours. It could be because they like hip hop/rap, basketball etc. I’d just proceed with the same caution for if you were dating a white guy who fetishized black women vs. ones who aren’t.

Japan is very very homogeneous in fact so homogeneous most foreigners can not make friends in Japan without acting Japanese themselves. I don’t think Japanese men in general would marry a foreigner, specifically ones born and raised in japan, only ones who are traveling abroad a lot but you should still be wary of the things he might say. Just ask him why he wants to talk to a foreigner and see what he says.

[Asker]

Thanks. He wanted us to hangout at a club because he said he thought I would like it? Since I was in my early 20s. He does have a weirdness when I mention age he is older than me but he ignores my question about age gap. I don't know I just feel iffy I think he likes me because I’m petite and young. It makes me think of people on twitter calling japanese guys pedos.

[Opinion Owner]

I don’t think it’s specifically having to do with him being Japanese but his personality in general. Are you IN japan is that where you’re dealing with this man at?

[Asker]

I’m not in japan yet. I will be in 2 months. He wanted to hangout with me.

[Opinion Owner]

I think you should go! You may make a new friend. As long as he’s not asking you for sex or “English exchange” (which is basically them using you for English lesson) I’m sure it’ll be fine. Japanese men are not overly weird, but there are some weird ones but you can always tell they’re weird because Japan openly condemns these types lol.

[Wise4myage]

Yes, especially blondes, lmao.