If a guy gets a little jealous does he have a lot of feelings for that girl?

[Anonymous]

[dynamicyandere]

He has an attachment, as opposed to being detached. He’s invested, enough for his feelings to be stirred.


If a guy doesn’t care whether or not a girl will stay or leave, he will be 100% unaffected. If a guy does care if a girl will stay or leave, the possibility of losing her will bother him.


Now, if that possibility is real (e. g. the girl isn’t very loyal), then he is right to feel bothered.


But if the girl is absolutely loyal to him, then feeling overly bothered may be a sign of insecurity.

[Asker]

He just seemed a little bothered when another guy was fooling around with me. He heard it and when he saw me he said "it sound like u guys were having fun out there" he didn't even look at me he just kept eating his food when I told him what happened and who it was he kind of half chuckled 🤷 this isn't the first time there was another incident that I won't type because it's just to much to be reading.

[Asker]

And we're not dating just coworker/friends.

[dynamicyandere]

I see. Well, if he was bothered by it, it’s likely that he has some feelings for you. Not necessarily super strong feelings, it could be moderate feelings, but feelings nonetheless.

[Asker]

The second incident happened with the same guy who was fooling with me he happened to hurt his hand one day so I was asking him what happened and I said to him is your hand hurting you and the guy that I think likes me sees and hears what I'm telling the other guy. So a couple days later I come back to work and the guy that might like me doesn't even acknowledge me or my friend until my friend got his attention and that's when he said I didn't even see you over there and that's a lie because he's always eyeing me when I'm over in that area.

So there was this girl who was in the break room with me she was washing her hands and in walks the guy I thinks likes me he goes over to where she's at while she's washing her hands and says to her is your hand hurting you she said no and he said oh it look like your hand was hurting you. So as soon as I heard that I immediately got a flash back of what I said to that other guy. I walked out of the room as fast as I could and he was right behind walking the same paced. What do you think? I'm just trying to see if he has enough feelings for me so I can ask him out.

[dynamicyandere]

I see. I think he likes you, but he’s a little passive aggressive / grumpy for my taste. 🤣

But, if you want to ask him out, sure!

I’m pretty sure he’ll say yes, unless he is self-sabotaging himself and thinks you will leave him for another guy, so he would rather save himself the heartbreak.

But, if he’s confident in himself, I bet he’ll say yes.

[Asker]

Do u think he was jealous or not?

[dynamicyandere]

I think he’s jealous. He wants you to give him that kind of attention, and more.

He sounds like he might be the kind of person that sulks though.

So, he may also then act disinterested when he actually IS interested.

[Asker]

You're right sometimes he'll act like he doesn't like me so I get confused. He'll just start acting strange... cause I can tell because the vibe would be off. He stares a lot at me to, to the point that a coworker saw him looking so hard that he didn't even see her standing in front of him. And she said everytime she sees me he's not to far away so I'm guessing everywhere I am he seems to magically appear.

[Billlewis]

Anytime you're successful in making a guy jealous, you always have an excellent chance of getting him to do whatever you want.

[CoolCatMar1]

Not all guys get jealous and it doesn't mean they don't love you it's just that they trust you enough.

[serious]

It indicates possessiveness and attachment.

[jahaims]

Jealousy =immature

[Mr-take-yo-girl]

Maybe so