Men, does it come natural to you to stare at boobs/cleavage when you see them in public regardless of the woman?

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CheeseMonster · Accepted Answer

Well no, I don't stare, but it is hard not to notice when someone's chest is exposed. I might glance; it does draw the eye. I assume that's similar for straight men..

andy530 · Accepted Answer

If they are attractive 😅

blueonblack22 · Answer

Men reflexively notice women and it’s part of biology and evolution. But I’ve had women “think” I was checking them out when I really wasn’t. Sometimes I was just reading what their tshirt says vs checking out their breasts or even just curious about the clothing they were wearing.

But anyway this one of the major issues I have with all this “free the nipple” stupidity going on in some places.

Men naturally and biologically view female bodies differently then women do (including breasts). For better or worse we much more visually stimulated. We were born that way.

That doesn’t give men an excuse to say or do anything inappropriate or worse of course. Most men (but unfortunately not all) get better at controlling this with time and experience.

But I am really fed up with some women thinking they change and control what men think. It’s ridiculous. It’s not good enough for men to just behave properly but they literally want our thoughts to match their always changing feelings.

That’s not only impossible but also completely asinine. It’s confuses the living f out of men.

Lionman95 · Answer

I'd say yes or at least it's a mixture because a guy needs to learn the difference between noticing and looking at something and staring. It could be a mixture because of social media and porn where women showing off their boobs has become normal. So these are encouraging to look more closer at boobs in real life.

rigmarole · Answer

Men are taller than women. If we weren't constantly looking down we'd run into you, knock you over, and step on you like a bug. So sure, if we see you, we see your face and boobs from the front and your hair and ass from the back... There's no way to see you without looking down on you.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Yes! It's just the way we're wired. A very long time ago, when we were still walking around on all 4's, a woman's ass was at face level and that was our main attractor. When we learned to walk upright, that ass was no longer in our face so, women started growing permanent tits that look just like an ass and THAT became our main attractor.

Steve7111 · Answer

If women don’t want anyone to stare at their cleavage, why would they go out with their cleavage on show?

I mean I try very hard not to stare, I don’t think a man should stare, but it’s kind of like women who put their cleavage on show shouldn’t then complain if a man stares at it. Sometimes it can be hard not to look!

RoseySarah · Answer

My hubby says that it is learned not all men do this!

Really I see it in my brother also! Hate gross anime teaching kids to state. It was not till late highschool when he started more anime that I caught him staring at my friends.

motownplayer2000 · Answer

Better question is, if women hate it so much, why do they wear clothes that reveal so much. Fashion? Lol please. There are shirts that cover up showing bare skin/cleavage. There are no excuses. Should men control themselves, absolutely. But women need to learn to be more modest.

Kelly6 · Answer

very nice question im here for results lol

RavVid · Answer

There is a natural impulse to check them out. I don't stare at every set either. Just the creme de la creme. It doesn't need cleavage because I have imagination.

Finchie40 · Answer

If she has nice tits then yes it just comes natural for me to look , or if she has a nice ass , it’s also hard not to look , just like some girls like to look at a guy’s package or his ass as well

OfMiceandMen · Answer

TBH - I am a man, and I notice boobs/cleavage. As such, I may take a quick peak but I am not about to stare at her chest for long periods, that's just creepy.

ObscuredBeyond · Answer

Kinda hard not to notice. But staring? Usually only an issue if she's flaunting way too much, or forgets to wear a bra.  Overly visible nipples can make any situation uncomfortable!

DarkWinterNights · Answer

I’ve mastered the momentary photographic glance. The key is no more than 2 seconds, appreciate it in the moment and then completely ignore looking at them at all. No one’s the wiser lol.

DerekC321 · Answer

Some guys are just rude. I don't stare. If I see a woman who I think is super attractive, I might have a quick glance but I don't stare (that's something you can control, unlike other things).

serious · Answer

Well, yes I will naturally notice that but I will never stare at that.

Grond21 · Answer

I comes naturally to notice them, and staring afterwards is easy to do. So we have to train ourselves not to

TadCurious · Answer

It comes naturally for me to notice but not to stare. At least not for more than a few moments.

AviatorTom · Answer

I don't stare but I do enjoy a short glance at some nice cleavage.

GreenLanternI0I · Answer

When I was in my teens Yes, now I'm in my 30's absolutely not, it is like whatever.

strateguy632 · Answer

natural to notice, but not natural: staring it's a decision

dolemite58 · Answer

i don’t wanna stare at some fugly girls boobs 😂

genericname85 · Answer

it does to men as it does to women, cause that infantile feeding instinct is still left with us.

backdoorman · Answer

Yes, but so does farting, so just because it's a natural urge doesn't mean we should do it any time we feel like it.

stratford · Answer

Yes - it's an annoying trait that I can't help. Even a girl wearing tight fitting clothes will be a distraction.

exitseven · Answer

Yesm it is as natural as breathing the air around me.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

No. I will notice it but not stare. My early teens are over besides it does nothing to stare at it.

Christoff92 · Answer

Well automatically I do stare. But would focus more looking at their eye's, cheeks, and personal traits.

Averageguy69420 · Answer

One time with I was like 8 my older cousin's changed her shirt in front of me, still had a bra on. But boy did I stare, first time seeing that

the_sinner · Answer

It comes natural to me to see their faces but not their boobs. But if they’re literally trying hard to advertise their boobs then naturally I can’t help it.

Andres77 · Answer

Skin attracts my attention. I have to snap myself out of it sometimes

Rollingstones84 · Answer

Yeah, nice boobs are nice boobs. I'm not going to stare, but I definitely notice when a lady is well endowed up there. I like them in all sizes though

nawtee_me · Answer

I try not to stare. I have made it a habit to look girls in the eyes when talking to them. But I do sneak a peak now and then.

jammcm · Answer

Only when they are presented such that they want to be stared at.

boobliker · Answer

if a cleavage is on view, then I will look, that is what is on show for!

Canuck2 · Answer

Yup. It’s like I am programmed to do a body scan. LOL

OddBeMe · Answer

Yes. As well as stare at unusual things like breastfeeding, scanty clothes in public…etc.

Vick2828 · Answer

I check out but don't stare for a long time.

Jerre · Answer

Yes I’d do stare, but usually only the ones that are attractive to me

TooHot2Care · Answer

Yes.  If I have hurt your feelings or made you uncomfortable. Fuck you. I have done nothing wrong. I have 0 remorse for my actions. and I'll fucking do it again. xD

Envine · Answer

I tend to subconsciously look, notice what I'm doing, then look away.

BLP11520 · Answer

It’s very hard not to; just like looking at your butts

Zlantur2 · Answer

Unfortunately yes😂 I just love boobs. I can stare, play and lick them for hours.

dragoblack · Answer

Yep. It's common too. And research shows it is common to do so regardless of sex, sexuality, & gender. People just like titties, it's instinctual.

Fuentes · Answer

I look at every part of a female

Sparkie460 · Answer

I don't stare at women's boobs. I just glance

LiamJHayden · Answer

For me it takes discipline to not notice.

Wise4myage · Answer

Yes, at least most of the time anyway.

OfDeath · Answer

They draw the eye

DextroShade · Answer

Yes, it is hard-wired into us to look.

Z1pTD · Answer

Ummmmm noo? Lol

TallAnon · Answer

I do it on purpose, I like seeing it.

Pete671 · Answer

Yes I can't help help it,,,

BigDog1989 · Answer

nope

EaterPeter · Answer

Yes.

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