When you show cleavage, do you want men to look or not?

[Anonymous]

I want them to look

I don't want them to look

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[Anonymous]

It's rare that I show cleavage but when I do it's not on purpose. It's just so happens that this shirt that fits me is designed to show cleavage. And if I think I look cute in it, I'm going to wear it. Obviously, if someone's looking at my cleavage, they should do so when I'm not looking and be discreet about it. Just when we girl's look at a guy's butt. We're looking, but he'll never know. And obviously, if you're having a discussion with someone, why would you look at their cleavage? Does it speak? Does the cleavage have a lot of interesting things to say?

[DinaM]

You mean yours doesn't? My cleavage never lets me get a word in edgewise because it's such a veritable source of interesting and useful information! It also has a very good recipe for cloud bread that it willingly shares with everyone.

[Makeuphoarder]

I am not the type that had huge breast to show off. I'm a C cup and rarely wear tops of dresses that show cleavage. I feel like if your boobies are popping out you really don't have a choice if men stare, they are basically out for display. Like your advertising your body..

[RJGraveyTrain]

I don't care if guys look. Just don't be an ass about it lol.

[Arya_Christ]

best answer.

[Asker]

Pics?

[RJGraveyTrain]

@CT_CD Naahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

[Asker]

Okay

[RJGraveyTrain]

@CT_CD 😘

[Asker]

💓💓

[fueledbythc]

Expect guys to stare if you show your cleavage. You can't do anything about it if you choose to show it.

[RJGraveyTrain]

@fueledbythc Like I said I don't care if you look but idc if there's a bit of cleavage; gawking at someones tits is no less rude than gawking at someone if they have fucked up teeth.

Wanna look? Look, you're allowed to be attracted to people. But gawking with drool hanging down your mouth is poor taste no matter how you paint it. Lol.

[nbbn5]

@RJgraveyTrain nice answer

[RJGraveyTrain]

@nbbn5 Thanks.

[FashionKiller]

Some shirts just are like that it's not for men

[Asker]

They're made for men

[FashionKiller]

No..

[Asker]

Yes..

[FashionKiller]

Nope

[Asker]

Yep...

[Arya_Christ]

yes...

[FashionKiller]

Nahh

[Asker]

Yahh

[FashionKiller]

@Arya_Christ stalking me

[FashionKiller]

Nooo

[Asker]

Ok..

[Arya_Christ]

yeah.

[KawaiiTowi]

they're made for women.
you know how I know?
we wear them.

[Arya_Christ]

they are made for men to look at.

[FashionKiller]

@Arya_Christ why?
@KawaiiTowi exactly

[Asker]

@KawaiiTowi nope

[Arya_Christ]

because they show cleavage.

[Asker]

@Arya_Christ exactly

[FashionKiller]

@Arya_Christ get lost stalker

[KawaiiTowi]

I guess dicks are made for us to look at. I love your buldge sweetie, what is that? 2 inches? so hot that I can't stop looking.
why do you get a boner? are you meaning for us to look at your dick?
@FashionKiller - ignore them, they're obviously dumb.

[FashionKiller]

@KawaiiTowi hahahhahahhahaha yeah I know right

[Arya_Christ]

I want you to look.

[KawaiiTowi]

and I don't want you to. aka why I don't wear shirts like that.
begone, thot

[Asker]

@KawaiiTowi why wear shirts that show half your boobs if you don't want anyone to look? What does a boner have to do with this?

[Arya_Christ]

if you don't wear them then why write "they're made for women.
you know how I know?
WE WEAR THEM."

[KawaiiTowi]

@CT_CD Why wear tight pants where you can see your dick if you don't want anyone to look?

[KawaiiTowi]

@Arya_Christ. its a Troll.

[Asker]

@KawaiiTowi i hate tight pants.

[Arya_Christ]

@CT_CD same

[FashionKiller]

@KawaiiTowi tell him

[FashionKiller]

I do

[sawno]

Its kinda obvious when its "Not about the boobs".
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Clearly an angle like that indicates we should look at her eyes. After all if we need to look at her boobs she would have centered the camera so they are not in view.

[Arya_Christ]

I don't want men to look but women are welcome.

[Schnikies]

I wear assless chaps cos I feel great in them but no one better look

[Arya_Christ]

I do

[morrigan_aensland]

I wear cleavage because it makes me feel good about how i look, it has nothing to do with wanting or not to be looked at. In the end it depends on who and how looks come, it can be flattering or very uncomfortable.

[Schnikies]

Ok well I don't mean to be confrontational but let's think through this reasoning. You say it makes you feel good. Why?
Does it make you feel more attractive? More socially acceptable?
What makes you feel good about showing your body if no one is looking?

[morrigan_aensland]

It makes me feel good because i look at myself in the mirror and like what i see, its that simple. Why do you wear what you like to wear?

[Schnikies]

And why do you like what you see?

[Schnikies]

Why is that important to you

[gareroo]

but we like it too 😋😋😋

[TripleAce]

The typical women
-shows a shit ton of tits, sexy outfit. If a hot guy comes up it and looks. She just perks them up a little. If it's an ugly guy - now he's a creep and her clevage is for 'her' and not for others to look at
Lol

[Arya_Christ]

I agree.

[TripleAce]

@Arya_Christ 😂😂

[Schnikies]

I think this is true but I don't think they actually realise they are doing it? I don't know. Some don't see the connection to why looking good makes them feel better. It's cos people are looking and are more likely to look. But they still want to pick and choose who can look

[Genie23]

Not all women wear deep neck tops because they want men to look. Some wear it because they feel great in it. It makes them feel beautiful. They feel more confident. I obly like to attention from my guy, and no one else's.

[Genie23]

Only*

[scarlett]

Honestly, if I'm showing cleavage it's because I feel confident. I may not necessary "want" guys to look but I don't mind if they do. If I felt self-conscious and didn't want guys looking, I would wear shirts and tops that covered more.

[Gianna17]

if i'm wearing a shirt that shows clevage i'm certainly not trying to hide it. Unless it's a friend or someone i'm close to in a platonic way it's not weird.

[Bleh-___-]

When I show cleavage I expect every man I encounter to motorboat me. Excuse me, my tits are down here.

[Emmdk]

Oh my God I clicked b but it picked a... stupid slow Internet haha

Anyway, I'd prefer it if not. I never show cleavage on purpose so that's why. It makes me feel awkward :/ 😂

[Arya_Christ]

maybe you subconsciously wanted to choose A.

[Emmdk]

@Arya_Christ

[Emmdk]

I'm sorry. Again slow Internet. Makes my screen jump so I click things I shouldn't haha.

[Teenage_Elmo]

I don't mind as long as it isn't excessive but no I don't want them to look. Usually I show cleavage cause its hot and my tits need to breathe

[KawaiiTowi]

other- I don't care. I feel nice in the shirt, and I don't care what other people say lol.

[RachelleDraws]

I hate it. I'm fine with women looking, just not men. I tend to cover up as much of my cleavage as I can

[Arya_Christ]

why? we also love cleavage.

[RachelleDraws]

@Arya_Christ What? Ew. I don't want boys looking.

[Arya_Christ]

why? cleavage is so beautiful😍

[RachelleDraws]

@Arya_Christ I know. I just don't want boys looking at mine.

[Arya_Christ]

but we also want😋

[RachelleDraws]

@Arya_Christ I don't care. No guy is looking at my cleavage.

[Arya_Christ]

what if I will?😏

[RachelleDraws]

@Arya_Christ I cover it up, except at home.

[Arya_Christ]

I have x ray goggles. I will still see😎. why not at home?

[RachelleDraws]

@Arya_Christ I like to show a little bit of cleavage to my girlfriend.

[Arya_Christ]

lucky girlfriend😒.

[AzuriteDawn]

I like being able to see. <3

[RachelleDraws]

@AzuriteDawn I like being able to see too. And show, of course.

[AzuriteDawn]

@Arya_Christ I'd rather you not perv at my girlfriend.

[Arya_Christ]

welcome to G@G @AzuriteDawn.

[AzuriteDawn]

@Arya_Christ i've been on for about a month, I just dont talk much.

[Arya_Christ]

why don't you? your girlfriend is an amazing talker. you should learn something from her.

[BeerFarts]

No, because I'm not attracted to men. Women, on the other hand, are welcome to ogle at my cleavage :)

[BackAgain]

I don't care if they glance but they shouldn't be staring!

[AllThatSweetJazz]

You didn't include an 'I don't mind' option. "I want them to look" is probably a bit too much to commit to. So with a third option it would be much better methinks.

[RedThread]

Just don't be a pig, dude. It's normal for people to notice attractive things about other people. It becomes a problem when people are creepy about it and stare and all that.

[Laetitia94]

Yes I want them to notice, but not in a starring way.

[Viranda]

I want people to look how cute I look, not men to think dirty things about me.

[Arya_Christ]

when does cleavage look cute?

[Chraesor]

I'm not sure you really have the option what they think to be honest, I think you only have the option of whether you are putting those thoughts in their heads or not.

[Hollywood-Glam]

I don't care if boys look or stare, but that doesn't mean I actually want them to.

[BronzedAdonis]

I'm sure they don't mind

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[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes i don't look at cleavage i don't want come off as a male chauvinist. LOL

[nog6422]

Holy shit, a 50/50 split. And with 19 votes on each! That's a reasonable sample size. This is a true rarity.