Do guys ever give chocolate to girls they only have platonic feelings for?

[Mellifluous_]

Let's say a guy that you have a more professional than friendly relationship with, gives you chocolate. What do you think his intentions might be?

[Anonymous]

Well... I'd definitely give someone chocolate who I viewed to be just a platonic friend. I feel that it's a truly special thing to give something away to someone & expect nothing in return. It signifies a good character! Which is always something we should strive for! Not to say that I wouldn't go absolutely balls deep in them right then & there if they wanted me to. But just that... for the most part... it's good to go about living in a way that spreads positivity. 😊 And chocolate is not only just a treat to eat! It's also healthy for us in certain portions & has caffeine in it which can give us more energy! Not to say that it wouldn't just be my intention to have them fully fueled for the oiled up cardio session we bouta have... But that... it can help them live a healthier life. Which I care about! Not only because their life can help support mine & the lives of other people I love. But because since they're alive & healthy, they're statistically more likely to wanna smash. But also if they don't want to, it's cool. I won't make them throw up the chocolate. Because what would Jesus do? That's what I ask myself & what I wish for all to ask themselves! Amen.

[Anonymous]

I mean, I barely give much of anything to a girl that’s not really committed to me. Even tho I have an interest in her. Most girls may view that as a lack of effort. I don’t care. I view it as, if a girl is interested in me as I am in her, she wouldn’t mind waiting for the wining and dining until we both have fully committed. So to answer your question, I personally would definitely have not bought you chocolates to begin with. So they might have either been free or he is trying to get at you. Kind of dumb in his part, but to each there own.

[MementoMori777]

Depends how it happened I guess, couldve been left overs and at that point it kinda kills the whole romance in it so if he gave it to you thinking of you then it's beyond just a platonic relationship

[Mellifluous_]

😂 Well he came over, we had a professional discussion, then at the end he handed me a bar of fancy chocolate.

[MementoMori777]

You can't just hot potato that information onto me and expect me to come up with a reasoning behind that wtf 😂

[Mellifluous_]

😂😂 you're not wrong. I was simply stating what happened though

[MementoMori777]

There was no form of unprofessionalism at all, so you are saying after all the talking professional stuff he just went like "here's a chocolate" or did he say something that might help here that for some reason you just skipped over it? lol

[Lionman95]

Yes if he´s a friendly guy to everyone. I think he wants to show you he´s a good guy. I wouldn´t assume that he´s into you.

[Andres77]

Was it a chocolate bar he had in his pocket or a box of chocolates?

generous vs. interested

[Mellifluous_]

It was a fancy bar of chocolate. A hazelnut mousse chocolate bar to be specific 😂

[Andres77]

Wow, I don't know then. He’s sending mixed messages…🙄

[BoopBoopBeep]

I've given them to the women I work with and my good friends. Bigger boxes for my friends.

[Anonymous]

can't assume anything. it could be a friendly gift, or he could be trying to melt his way into your heart/pants. 🤣

[ProbablyClueless]

Yup. I've given women chocolates without romantic intentions.

[KrakenAttackin]

No man has 'platonic" friendships with women unless he is gay.

[Kelly6]

regular gift means he has feelings

[serious]

Yes of course. I am sure they do

[spartan55]

Why does he have to have any intentions? 🙄