Do guys become bitter after getting rejected by girl?

[Anonymous]

I see this on my brother. He became so cold and bitter to dating. He also now has trust issues after one girl rejected him when things were looking well for them.

[DaveJord]

At your age absolutely yes. But people your age lack the emotional intelligence and maturity to really process all the emotional stimuli and impluses that come with dating. I mean boys are still not fully devolped until like 22 to 24. Remember a boy, or men in general have 75% more mucle mass then the average woman. So we take long to develop and grow, mentally and physically. Which is why many agree that girls have it easier in school, and the the ecudation system is better tailored to women. Because adolecne females just develop and grow faster then most men. I mean most men don't full mature or develop until after they are school agianed. Girls are pretty much full developed by age 16. Thats a huge advantage, you have over younger men. This is partly why lots of younger woman go with older guys.

This why I always say wait until your 26 to 28 to have a serious relationship, or to even talk marriage or kids... because at 26 to 28 everything between the sexes start to even out. But starting out I think in todays soceity that is more tailored to woman in general far more then ever has been before... girls have a emotional and intellectual advantage over most boys.

So yes, adolexent males have a hard time processing feelings and emotions on the same level as women.

[Anonymous]

It can over time, but rejection is normal. You aren’t everyones cup of tea and that’s okay. Younger men get more upset about rejection when they’re younger because of hormones and inexperience. Unfortunately this is also the age that habits are formed, so they almost default their way into things like porn addictions and other unhealthy lifestyles that end up sabotaging them later in life.


Men primarily become bitter toward women after they’ve been cheated on (betrayed) or divorced. Women take a long time to get over exes, men never do. Men and women just have different ways of coping with it.

[_Maya_]

Some might. They shouldn't unless it is a pattern of being rejected. I think after a while anyone would be bitter for being constantly rejected. From one person though? No way. You can get disappointed sure but to get that bitter and give up on dating is extreme over one time. No one likes being rejected and most of us have at some point or another. Most of us don't give up completely though. We just get over it and move on. Life is full of disappointments and dating is no exception.

[Miah05]

All depends on the guy and his maturity level.

But yes there definitely are guys who will become bitter and vengeful even.

As for your brother. Just be there for him hopefully he will come around.

[Kaamraj]

The dating landscape has changed drastically since advent of dating apps and social media. It has gotten exponentially harder for men for find and retain a girl. The ones who are benefiting from this new landscape are the top 5% of men and most women. So slowly the average man is losing interest altogether in a game he cannot win.

[Billlewis]

Not at all, especially if she'll let me serve her in other ways, such as by paying for her dates with other guys, etc.

[236color]

It can happen. It's more likely to happen if he's listening to this incel garbage.

[jahaims]

Rejection doesn't bother me. It makes sense. Everyone has their own preferences. Betrayal is where bitterness comes from in my opinion.

[DerekC321]

It's really hard for some guys.

[Jmmmfi4]

Sounds like me

[MissBoogus]

Some do.