What does it mean when a guy calls you “baby momma”?

[blunty]

This guy is in his 20s and I'm 34, but we've been flirting for a while. She calls me baby momma, what does it mean when a guy calls you “baby momma”?

[jewel]

When a guy refers to someone as his "baby momma", he is typically indicating that the woman is the mother of his child or children, but they may not necessarily be in a traditional or current romantic relationship.

The use of the term can be seen in both positive and negative lights. For some, it's a casual and endearing way to acknowledge the shared responsibility and bond of having a child together. For others, it may indicate a lack of respect or signal an informal, possibly non-committal relationship. The context in which the term is used is essential to understanding its intention.

One more thing, some individuals may use the term in jest or playfully with their romantic partners even if they don’t have children together. Like many slang terms, its meaning can be fluid and vary depending on the speaker, the relationship, and the situation. It's always advisable to consider the dynamics of the relationship and the context in which it's used to interpret the term's true meaning accurately.

[RoοstеrBrеаst]

I think all men are so different that we can't assume the intention of a guy who called you "baby momma". It really depends on the guy. I have a friend who is a fucking horny bastard, and he's absolutely obsessed with boobs! He can't get enough of those sweet, squishy, pillowy mounds of heaven! He's like a fucking starving man in a bakery, with his eyes glued to the tits like a hungry fucking wolf! He's always talking about how he wants to bury his face in those soft, squishy, fucking delicious mounds of cleavage and suck them until they're hard and leaking with desire! It's like he's having a wild, erotic dance with those boobs, leading the charge and having them just hang on for the ride! He's a fucking boob-smashing machine, always on the hunt for the next pair of tits to conquer! So when he calls you "baby momma," it means he's fucking obsessed with your boobs and wants to make them his own, to smother his face in them and suck them until he can't take it anymore! He's a fucking boob-loving, tit-obsessed, cock-hungry beast who can't get enough of those sweet, fucking melons, boobies, tits, milkers, fried eggs, chesticles, honkers, bazoombas, coconuts, fiery biscuits, cantaloupes, boom booms, jugs! So be prepared for a wild ride with this fucking boob-obsessed maniac, @Boobslayer!

[jshm2]

Are you a mother though?

If not, then you need to shut that shit down as it's creepy. He's basically claiming you as the "mother of his children," before they are even born.

If you are a single mother, then still keep and eye out, as he may be an "R Kelly" type.

[Daniela1982]

Not sure but it sounds pretty dorky. A 20 year old guy is not fully mature so it can mean anything. Sounds to me like you are getting off on it though.

[SexyBrunetteNY]

It's not a compliment. If a guy doesn't want to marry the woman who has his children, hard pass, lol.

[adidas0169]

I don't know how anyone doesn't know the meaning if " baby momma or baby daddy". doesn't mean beautiful or hot etc it simply means it's woman or girl that a boy or guy knocked up and she has his kid. that meaning been around for years and all these ghetto kids/ hood rats that can't speak normal English add stupid meanings to pretty much everything.

[ObscuredBeyond]

In other words, he sees you as someone he wants to have unprotected sex with, even if it means you get knocked up. But that he still has no intention of getting married.

[nastyb]

because there is a good chance he is low class from the ghettos. "baby momma" is kind of like the ghetto version of "sweetie or baby "

[Matilde03]

Som of us haves to live there. public housing is my only thing. dosnt means I got no class

[nastyb]

@Matilde03

i grew up in public housing too. i can say 95% of them have no class. there's a reason why those people live there

[Matilde03]

“those people” 🤦🏻‍♀️… an yea.. I waited a few years b4 I even got a place so I am thnkful.

[nastyb]

@Matilde03

Most people in public housing dont even work. Lotta druggies, low lives, criminals, people who been in us for 40 years and still can't speak English

[Matilde03]

I guess u privlage. thoses people r my neighbors som i have gone to school with. an there criminal all places. If I go to the north side of the city for any thing.. I jus get looks an stuff.. people says stuff bout me an my kids. i dont wanna live there… I feels more at home in my neighborhood

[beautyjoyfover200]

That’s an icky!
Run if a guy calls you that!
Run before you even become one too!

[OlderAndWiser]

It probably means that he wants to get you pregnant.

[DryGermanGuy]

Too much ghetto attitude. I hate that ghetto babble, especially from people who should know better.

[Bobbybopeep]

Considering you’re older than him. It’s just a nick name.


If you have a child it could be thst so you’re a baby momma.


If not, he’s using it as you’re the baby (him) momma

[Jazzy54]

Why would you want a man that much younger than you?

[nastyb]

maybe he is attractive.

[Jazzy54]

That wouldn’t work on me. I wouldn’t mind a younger man, but he’d have to be more than just good looking.

[nastyb]

@jazzy54

Sometimes if a man never tells you his age, you would like him and you never realize he is younger than you.

[Jazzy54]

Again, a man (regardless of age) has to be more than good looking for me to be interested in him. A man can be extremely good looking, but an idiot. All I’m saying is that a person’s looks can only take them so far.

[nastyb]

@jazzy54

just becaue he is younger, it doens't mean he's not mature or lacking in expereince or has a bad personality. you can't judge people that way.

I'm 27, I met a 22 yr old guy at a party. After talking to him for a couple of hours, I thought he was real mature, sounded like a guy around my age , I thought he was 26. (He looked around 25). But then later he revealed to me that he was only 22. He paid his family's mortgage, did all the housework and took care of his mother, recently graduated from college and landed a job at a company.

you can't just judge someone by their age. doing this will only prevent you from finding love

[Jazzy54]

Oh my goodness. You’re missing what I’m saying entirely and I won’t continue going back and forth with you on this. In my first response to you, I said I’d welcome a younger man, but I don’t go on looks alone. I have to get to know the man as a person. “He’s cute” isn’t enough because looks fade over time.

[nastyb]

@jazzy54

Your answer literally was " Why would you want a man that much younger than you?"

Im just telling you that age means nothing by a certain age. A 36 yr old man may have the maturity of a 16 yr old. While a 26 yr old man can have the maturity of a 33 yr old.

[bingbongbangbung]

@nastyb obeying authority and making money are not signs of maturity

[Rowdy_555]

He should only be calling you beautiful and anything else in the nature of maturity. Take my advice I’m 32 and just ended some things with someone that young. The maturity level is not it. Save yourself.

[CuriousMufuxka]

It means he learned it from his daddy! 90's Maury and Jerry Springer shit. Anyway, Is this guy a she?

[KrakenAttackin]

It's a way of calling a woman a "hoe", because "baby momma's" are ghetto AF.

[xxo69]

baby = cute
& momma is related to your age since you are 14 years older than him

[BrightBubblyKat]

A fetish joke

[spartan55]

I would find a different moron.

[provokeesmokee]

He wants to impregnate you.

[HelpfulWoman]

you're a "cum and run" option.

[jeffend888]

Lol, I'm not even going to touch this one.

[Jmmmfi4]

How many different meanings can it have

[Anonymous]

That would be sexual. In short, MILF