Do you guys actually care about a women's personality?

[baz234]

If you do, can you describe the perfect girlfriend/wife? What would her personality be like?

The women can also answer with what they're looking for in a guy.

[BoobSlayer]

Well, when it comes to finding the perfect lady, there's no doubt that the ultimate quality I look for is a woman who has a fine pair of honkers on her chest - meaning those boobies, tits, milkers, or bazoombas, among various other slang terms we've been granted! While I obviously appreciate a well-proportioned melon bask, there's much more to this search for boobland delights than just melons and cantaloupe gems. After all, that dainty area above the sternum holds even more appeal for the discerning boob connoisseur like yours truly!

Of course, the chesticles must have a shape and size proportionate to the overall figure, the tassels ought to be firm yet supple, and those fried eggs need to be perky. In fact, not a single attribute should be out of balance – think "The Golden Ratio" applied to the bodacious breasts – because I'm a Boobslayer who is keen to appreciate symmetry in all things.

As much as cup size matters, a healthy balance with the body is imperative. I am definitely intrigued when a woman can pull off well-portioned boobs in an overall fit silhouette, avoiding any overt discomforts, as these playgrounds are meant to stimulate, not be painful. In that light, coconuts and cantaloupes must play good mammary games in the context of the curves around the waist.

Even the right mix of "cruise missile, firecracker, tits" depends on the overall package. I admire versatility and the art of balancing different shapes in the same pair. After all, variety in boob structures could make the boob life more engaging for both partners.

Apart from all this bust-mania (because why not? it's Boobslayer fantasy), in my quest for my perfect lady, I find qualities beyond breasts very fascinating too! Judy Garland herself could be the perfect case in point as she may seem different to some, but I dig her. Plus a little bit of a sense of humor, some intellectual compatibility, emotional intelligence, and an intriguing person.

#BoobLoverPride

[MrOracle]

Absolutely. In fact, I've passed over far more women because of personality (including some really good-looking ones) than because of looks. I think NOT ENOUGH people make it a high priority - at least during mate selection; they care LATER, when it's too late - but plenty of people DO care.

[baz234]

I'm kindof looking for specifics. Is it like. Ooh she's not inquisitive enough for me. That's a turn off. What traits are you actually interested in?

[MrOracle]

I look for women who generally have a positive/optimistic attitude - that's the baseline. Lots of people are relentlessly negative, and they will suck the life out of you, so I want her to default to being positive. Of course there will be strife at times, and no one is happy every single day, but "default positive" is clearly better.

The next thing I look for is cooperation. I treat my relationships like a TEAM, and I put the best interests of the TEAM ahead of my own as much as possible, and I expect her to do the same. The team is to be protected and advanced by both of us as much as reasonably possible.

Finally, I look for someone who is peaceful. Peace at home is important.

[BrightBubblyKat]

Kindness, intelligence, a sense of humour and madly in love with me. Cute, ordinary or hot. My height or taller. Not too skinny or pale.

[Berethor]

Men care mostly about woman's looks but I care about if she virgin, that good personality.

[baz234]

So like. You're still a Virgin at 35 waiting for the perfect women? Or is it okay for men to sleep around but not women?

[Berethor]

A man is like a key, a woman is like a lock, lock that opened by many key is worthless.

[baz234]

Did you know you can make up an idiom to justify any kindof behavior? Its almost like using idioms doesn't count as a justification for any action. Let's be real for a second. You have double standards.

[Berethor]

You brainwashed by feminism, you accept hos while a man should not accept them.

[baz234]

And... what's your ethical famework?

[Berethor]

Traditional ethical famework, hos should be shamed, hos are bad, hos are evil. :)

[BarryLiverstone]

What is a ho?

[Berethor]

That song, you really can't guess what ho means? it that really that hard? :)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oDaaAI6keSw

[BarryLiverstone]

It must be hard, as you didn’t say what a Ho is

[Berethor]

I am not going to say, if you don't get it then it's you problem, not mine. :)

[BarryLiverstone]

Not going to say what a Ho is? Certainly a hard word to define objectively then. Cheers

[Anonymous]

It's Appearance > Personality > Money for both genders, but women lie more about it.

[baz234]

What kindof personality traits would you specifically look for though?

[shades777]

it matters after we decide your attractive not before

[Anonymous]

For me it's 80% personality 20% looks. Good looks are great but you need a personal connection in order to have a relationship.

[Anonymous]

Intelligent and kinky.

[BarryLiverstone]

Yep it matters

[baz234]

Can you go into detail? Or is it just as long as she's not abusive...

[BarryLiverstone]

I can add details. Will that help you?

[baz234]

I guess this isn't the right format to ask the question. I should've just listed a bunch of personality traits and asked you guys to pick top 5 you like and the top 5 you dislike.

[BarryLiverstone]

I’m just curious why you asked the question. As many personality traits can’t be forced if she’s being herself

[baz234]

Not really concerned with forcing someone to change their personality. I'm interested in men's preferred dating scene. If you could have anything you ever wanted what would you go for In a partner.

[BarryLiverstone]

I’m not trying to be evasive, the thing is there is no perfect partner. I’ll list a few things I would like:

Confidence: I want her to feel happy with who she is and have confidence so she can take over and help others. Want her to know she’s a badass and want her to take risks going for her goals

Kindness: there is too much hate in the world. Would like her to be kind to people and love the family. Work with me to be a positive influence on our community and be good role models.

Patience: I am one stubborn asshole (well sometimes). I need someone who can have total trust in me and bd patient when it seems like I’m going against the norm. Let her rely on God and wait for me to snap back to reality and hold me accountable in a loving way.

Those are a few examples, is that helpful?

[baz234]

I guess I still want more. How would you determine those traits on a date. What are some red flags or key words you look out for. And what has your experience of dating been like?

[BarryLiverstone]

I can’t figure all this out on one date but I’ll give you an example for each:

Confidence: she is put together, smiles and has good body language. She isn’t shy and is outgoing with others because she knows her value.

Kindness: she has manners and treats people well, especially strangers and I can see her heart for humanity.

Patience: when I make a mistake on a date she doesn’t leap down my throat. She is playful and can tease me rather than getting pissed off.

Red flags would be her repeating stories indicative of past trauma and abuse. Drug use, her being disrespectful also are no gos

I’ve had many dates in the past starting in college through today. Had 3 longer term relationships with two over a year. And I’ve studied relationships and dating for over 8 years now